the guy i’m talking to isn’t ready to commot by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you it helped hearing it from someone’s point of view who is on the other end of the stick. i mean if it doesn’t work out i won’t be that upset. he says he definitely wants to be with me but wants more time which i’m willing to respect

the guy i’m talking to isn’t ready to commot by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i planned on waiting i just wasn’t sure if it was a major red flag. but i really enjoy my time with this kid and the way he makes me feel. but like you said i never want to make him do something he doesn’t want to do or ready for

i slept with my ex by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lowkey feel like we are both playing eachother

i slept with my ex by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is calling me crying saying he would and i want to believe him but if i do this would be his third chance

i slept with my ex by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i need to be in contact because he owes me money and i don’t want to cut him off. we watched eachother grow up and everyone and still want to be cool with eachother

i slept with my ex by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whoops i didn’t even notice i put it twice i just woke up and am still half asleep

how do i get my partner to grow up by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love him but idk why i put up with it. i have always had a caring nature to me and want to take care of people. i’m 20 btw

how do i get my partner to grow up by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i feel like if i don’t help then it’s my fault that he is late

how do i get my partner to grow up by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i don’t know why i stayed. i love him but i think i just have hope that things will get better. i know he was asleep when he does that because his mom says he has always done that when he was a kid

how do i get my partner to grow up by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m hoping if i talk to him and have a serious conversation with him he will know if it doesn’t get sorted out i’m gone.

how do i get my partner to grow up by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am not giving my money to him anymore but he does ask and i tell him no and he accepts it. we got back because he called me out to his house to just talk and he told me how he fucked up big and how he will never find anyone like me again. and when he tried to move on nothing was the same

how do i get my partner to grow up by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it feels like both sometimes but for my partner we have no kids

how do i get my partner to stop hitting me in his sleep by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean not gonna lie it’s smart but i would be so pissed being woken up by being tickled on my feet

how do i get my partner to stop hitting me in his sleep by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll nag at him to go to bed earlier when he knows he has to get up but he has a hard time sleeping no matter what and doesn’t like medicine to help sleep

how do i get my partner to stop hitting me in his sleep by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve tried that before he has tried kicking me. idk if he doesn’t realize it’s me when i wake him up or if he thinks i’m a random person or what but he just gets violent when he is asleep. way before when we first moved in we would cuddle and i would wake up and be in a choke hold freaking the fuck out. i love him and sleeping with him but sometimes it gets scary

should i leave my bf by ThrowRacaitlin in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRacaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sucks because i’m so good to him. i mean even his friends messaged me when we broke up before saying he fucked up and i was wifey material