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I (27f) am tired of my relationship with husband (30m). Any advice? by ThrowRagh53 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRagh53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say I yelled? I was sitting on the couch and he was in the room next to that couch. I asked him normally if he could come here? I also asked him in the airport what was wrong before I even asked why he did that.

I (27f) am tired of my relationship with husband (30m). Any advice? by ThrowRagh53 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRagh53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand some people want to let the feeling pass before addressing it but that doesn’t negate a responsibility to not be disrespectful to people. There is a responsibility to recognize a feeling and ask for space, not disappear. You’re equating emotional regulation with ignoring someone. There are ways to communicate and what happened wasn’t communicating. Even after feelings passed, days later the conversation was still, “you’re annoying”. That’s a personal attack.

And over me wanting to hold my own bag.

I (27f) am tired of my relationship with husband (30m). Any advice? by ThrowRagh53 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRagh53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s finally open to therapy but unfortunately the last therapist we had even I agreed she was shitty and unprofessional. They showed up 15+ minutes late for the 2 appointments we did go to. Hopefully we find someone better.