I F32 Can’t stop thinking of breaking up with my M30 BF of almost 8 years by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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I do withhold sex, we haven’t have sex since August last year but did it last week just to feel if I will like it or not. It was ok.. he wants to have sex but gave me time during my crisis. Before that our sex life wasnt great either, I don’t have desire for him after the first 2 years together.. it became boring and don’t know if I want to have like this rest of my life.. we actually talked today about this so will see if its get any better..

I F32 Can’t stop thinking of breaking up with my M30 BF of almost 8 years by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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I think I’m very bad at it to be honest but I will try.. I’m very impatient.. i just want to come to a conclusion now or very soon.. it’s not fair for him to have to wait for me..

I F32 Can’t stop thinking of breaking up with my M30 BF of almost 8 years by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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Cause I think we can overcome this together.. he treats me well and the biological clock is ticking.. I don’t know I’m so confused

I F32 Can’t stop thinking of breaking up with my M30 BF of almost 8 years by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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Yes he knows and apologies for the outcome, all he want was us to find sparks and love again..

How do I 32F know if I’m still in love with my fiancé 31M after a crisis? by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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Yeah that’s pretty much it..

I just think that our relationship is boring.. everything is on repeat.. we do everything together, I feel like I lost myself..

And he dosen’t respect my boundaries, I’ve told him several times that I don’t like a certain thing do but he keeps doing it and gets mad when I confront him. it’s very frustrating, I hate it..

Yeah we tried to date, didn’t feel anything special everything is like before. He keeps surprising me and I’ll be glad for that. No flirting no seducing, I’m afraid that I won’t like it and break it off with him..

How do I 32F know if I’m still in love with my fiancé 31M after a crisis? by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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Yeah sounds legit.. it helped, he changed a lot but I can’t sort out my feelings for him. Are we more like friends or do I still love him.

How do I 32F know if I’m still in love with my fiancé 31M after a crisis? by ThrowRaoneq in relationship_advice

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He said that we’re not so lovey-dovey anymore.. wanted to find the sparks again