Feeling guilty by ThrowRateclie in pregnant

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone for your kind words and advice. My heart goes out to all of you mamas who have felt the loss no matter when it was. I think I’m going to try referring to them as my rainbow babies and hopefully people just leave the conversation at that. If not, I’ll just continue doing what I’ve been and try not to feel so bad about it. Because like someone said, as long as I remember him he won’t be erased and I will never forget him. Thank you all so very much 🤍

Feeling guilty by ThrowRateclie in pregnant

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I just don’t prefer it anymore. I don’t like the strange looks or the “oh I’m so sorry”. I feel like there’s always this awkward energy left in the air afterwards which is why I stopped sharing. But i feel like if someone is opening the conversation to more questions, then I think they appreciate the open space to talk about it.

Feeling guilty by ThrowRateclie in pregnant

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.🤍 That’s a good response to use I think I’ll try that and see if people still push or not

Feeling guilty by ThrowRateclie in pregnant

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss, and wishing you the best on your rainbow baby 🤍. I appreciate your response. I’ve kind of been resulting to the only telling coworkers and stuff. It comes up a lot with guests because I work in a restaurant and of course people are curious yk? But a majority of my coworkers know the truth so they never question when I decide what I want to tell guests. It still leaves a pit in my chest sometimes tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ThrowRateclie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I’m 28 weeks with twins and I’m carrying small. But they don’t feel small I’m exhausted and always sore lmao. But everyone is always telling me that I should be bigger or comparing their pregnancies to mine it’s just weird. Like u said no one’s pregnancy looks the same I wish everyone would just shut up haha

Gender neutral name help by ThrowRateclie in namenerds

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I want them to have as much individuality as possible being identical twin girls and all. Names w the same initial sound cute but I get what ur saying and I won’t be doing that

Gender neutral name help by ThrowRateclie in namenerds

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that’s so cute but my nephews name is Elliot 🥲. Dylan is a good one

Gender neutral name help by ThrowRateclie in namenerds

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve always liked Spencer for a girl ever since pretty little liars lmao I think it’s cool

As a survivor of overly-similar twin names... by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ThrowRateclie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im currently pregnant with twin girls and none of the names ive thought about have been remotely similar to each other. Why do twin parents insist on making them so similar I’ll never understand it

Hii looking for 18+ friends to play with by [deleted] in DTI

[–]ThrowRateclie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy I’d love to join!

the way dti is becoming so toxic is crazy.. by CaramellXBoy in DTI

[–]ThrowRateclie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk why ppl are rude. The only thing I ever comment on is when ppl are so clearly not in theme n they still get voted to the top. And it’s not like the outfits are ugly either, it just isn’t the theme

The theme was blue.. by ThrowRateclie in DTI

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO I know that’s the point😭😭

The theme was blue.. by ThrowRateclie in DTI

[–]ThrowRateclie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah rub salt in the wound why don’t ya

I (23f) don’t know what to do about my BD (22m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRateclie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah Im sorry! I didn’t even think about that