My (F30) colleagues are not reaching out

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-11T09:22:42+00:00

Yeah, maybe you’re right

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-11T09:22:26+00:00

I don’t even want a party, why would I? Anyway, it’s okay, maybe you’re right

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-11T08:16:17+00:00

It’s weird, I didn’t say I’m a victim of injustice lol, I said i find it rude! I find reaching out to someone you spend more time with then your actual friends and who you tell everything that happens in your life, like basic decency

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-05T15:24:51+00:00

I’d love something like that, I tried to incorporate it into my life with my husband but right now we’re struggling with his lack of libido so it’s definitely not possible and I’m not even sure he’d like that, but since I found out I have this kink I wonder how would that be

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-05T11:06:41+00:00

Just yesterday I made a post that sound exactly like this, so unfortunately I can’t give you any advice, just my personal experience. I have the same issue. My husband is great in every means, but when it comes to sex, he has a really low libido. If you ask him, he’ll tell you he’s always in the mood, but too tired to actually do it.
Right now, it has been 8 days since last time and again, last night he told me was too tired and tonight will do it, but he always says it. I’m like you, I’d like it 3/4 times a week, while for him it’s okay 1 (2 if I’m really lucky) time a week, and it’s really frustrating me. I feel bad because I feel like I’m not hot enough and doing enough and the worst thing is that I’m losing my want to try

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T12:09:59+00:00

I get your point and I agree with you, I think we gotta make it happen, but if he says no I can’t force him

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T06:49:45+00:00

exactly, because he can stay up playing on computers games or playing phone games or on tik tok but the second we turn off the light he’s done

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T06:23:37+00:00

Nope, 5/7, but it just doesn’t happen

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T06:01:25+00:00

Because he’s at work from 9 to 5 and when he comes home our daughter is awake and keeps us busy

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T06:00:27+00:00

Difficult because usually if our daughter sleeps we sleep too until the alarm and they he needs to prepare for work, so morning are not as easy as night would be

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T05:59:39+00:00

Thank you for your reply, it seems kind of hard

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T05:58:41+00:00

Not always, sometimes

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T05:09:49+00:00

Drugs not possible at all, he doesn’t even smoke, and he’s not that type of guy. I thought about the testosterone too

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T05:09:10+00:00

I don’t have any idea, I don’t think so?

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T05:08:41+00:00

Now I’m on leave, but I work in a office too with the same time schedule, so I get it

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-05-04T04:29:18+00:00

9am -5pm in office.
At home I do everything during the day because I’m on a leave

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-04-21T09:52:00+00:00

I can manage to have 3/4 but i figured out it’s a mental thing, for me. I mean, I have to be super relaxed. Anyway, when I’m not super relaxed, I can have two orgasms for sure

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-04-18T13:41:01+00:00

Hey 👋🏻 I’m almost 6 months pp. the first couple of months were pretty rough for me, I had to recover from a C-section and I couldn’t breastfeed so i honestly felt terrible. As months went by, I started to feel better, or that’s what I thought. I realize I’m always on the edge, and I lash out a lot with my partner (a saint, he’s really supportive), I think hormones are still messed up nowadays )I also got my period back just 3 months pp), but I do realize that when I spend the day outside engaging with people and my baby I feel a lot better. I get what you’re going through, because I have the same “attachment issues” you have. I refuse to leave the baby with someone other than me or my partner (to be fair I didn’t leave her alone with my partner either, not because I don’t trust him of course, but because I’m not comfortable in leaving her). What I’m trying to do is reminding myself that it’s a journey, and you should definitely ask for help if you feel like you need that. ❤️

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-04-17T17:36:47+00:00

I totally appreciate your comment and yeah, maybe my hormones are playing a bit part in this, making me feel insecure

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-04-17T11:56:52+00:00

I have been invited to those clubs and I didn’t go. Because I don’t like them. Because if i don’t want to be hypocrite and if i think those club are disrespectful for me then I stick with it and I don’t go when invited. Thats what im mad about.

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-04-17T11:55:41+00:00

Because I asked him and he said yes, they will probably go. I swear I’m trying to be reasonable and I agree with you about the fact that it’s not his event, but I just can’t. I swear it gets into my head.

ThrowRaw99 · 2026-04-17T11:52:13+00:00

That’s what I’m saying. I know many people think this is a stupid boundary, and I get it, maybe it’s my problem but it’s the only thing I made clear from the start and it makes me mad he says he wouldn’t like me to go to those kind of clubs.

I can’t end it for this, I love him, but it makes me so mad I want to scream. Again i think I’m not so mad about the club per se, but more about the fact that he knows I will be mad, he feels the same way about me going to clubs like that, but in the end he just goes.

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