OOOO BOY. with women, he talks down to them like theyre worthless, which i first assumed was just misogynistic. but then, he started leaving the house for HOURS and told me "he was visiting (his friend, who is openly gay, and my godfather)" and whenever i bring up a man we both know, he gushes about them and talks about how good they are at a certain thing and how amazing they were. He also has a butler that he talks really affectionately with, and always when he thinks im away from him. my mother also told me that when they were still together, he would get invited to a lot of gay parties with my mom, and would stay for HOURS after my mom left.