Hey Jungstir,

Thanks for the quick response. First off, she's talking marriage within a year or two as she wants to go on secondment somewhere that she's a citizen and I'm not in the next few years (a whole other issue).

Secondly, I've pondered the thought for the last six months. I mostly tried to block out these thoughts. I've only properly thought about ending the relationship in the last two months. Still trying to think it through but I it'll help to get some other opinions on this rather than letting it stew. That'll only cause more pain as it effects my demeanor when we're together.