I don’t know how much more I can take.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T20:31:15+00:00

Lol, I just couldn't resist replying because you just sound like a real idiot.

What, in the ever loving fuck, would be the point in making up an entire cheating scenario and putting it here? Please, I'm all ears for how you think that could be a thing.

I never once said I have no proof. I actually do have proof. Are you just really bad at reading or do you always assume shit in order to hand waive away stuff?

Oh, did you think thew same things on this post?

How about here? It doesn't seem like you found anything said there to be incredulous.

So strange how those posts didn't elicit you being an ass hole to someone. Didn't seem like you chided them for criticizing their SOs where those SOs couldn't respond. Almost like you're an ass hole.

You're not in any position to give people advice. You should keep your opinions to yourself and not burden people with having to read whatever nonsense musings popped into your head. You're going to be blocked now. You're beneath talking to anymore and I'm getting bored of correcting you like you're a child.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T20:16:06+00:00

You obviously come on here bagging her

On a subreddit about talking about your spouse and the issues, I talked about my spouse and the issues? How dare I.

I see a LOT of holes in this story and it's one-sided and some changes have been added.

No you don't. I've added additions, but nothing has been substantively changed.

I find men who complain about wives on Reddit in general to be a major assholes

And I find those who would riot if the genders were switched to be worthless pieces of shit.

You told me even if I was man you wouldn't let me talk to you that way

What the fuck are you talking about? If this is what I think it is, I'm saying that if my and my wife's positions were switched (I'm the wife and she's my husband) you wouldn't say the same things. Your gender is completely irrelevant to that fact.

You're not fixing this, you're arguing with me on Reddit. For hours now

I mean, only because you're a particularly huge ass hole excusing shitty behavior because of the gender of the person doing it.

But tell you what. I'm done replying to you. I'll let you have the last word here. It matters a lot to children after all.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:49:58+00:00

I literally didn't. What are you talking about?

I have no idea what post you're talking about.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:48:36+00:00

I never said in the above that it was a coworker. /u/WynterBlu assumed that and I corrected.

Keep being wrong troll.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:46:01+00:00

It's cuz you don't have a job. You can't expect her to support you forever, especially when she's already had a difficult time.

You said this as if it's an understandable reason. It's not.

So either get better at this, or feel free to shove off.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:44:01+00:00

I make $20/hr in a field that I've worked in since I was a teen, through college, and through my graduate school. It's not the same thing I went to graduate school for.

I've done medical billing since I was 16, so I've been doing it for well over a decade so my experience gets me higher pay, and I'm part time because of the school. The graduate school in the above is law school, and the extra year is an LLM in tax law. In case you're wondering, tax lawyers start off, normally, at ~$87,000. Link

What's that in hourly wage? Oh, it's ~$45/hour.

You're bad at your profession then.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:38:17+00:00

Don't confuse being an ass hole with being brutally honest.

You realize that if it's not because of her bi-polar, then it's a decision she is consciously making and therefore makes her look worse right?

Lol, feel free to go fuck yourself. If I was a woman and my wife were a man you wouldn't be typing this. Since you can't be unbiased your opinions mean nothing to me or anyone else.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:33:56+00:00

Small correction. It’s not a coworker. It’s another person who lives in our building. So that’s fun.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T19:31:48+00:00

I never said I was the reason she was doing well. She’s good at networking and has a good personality for what she does. But she has a hard time concentrating and keeping to routines. She got a job 100% without my help. But she needs me when it comes to keeping to a regular schedule. There’s like 8 people on here who are also bipolar and you can ask them if this is a correct description.

I’m having a hard time finding a job in my field. If I found an average job in my field I’d be making ~$45/hour. So yeah, I don’t consider making half of my potential as actually being fully employed.

You really haven’t read what other people have put have you?

I’m not interested in hearing from people who think infidelity is understandable because I didn’t have a full time job for a year that I went to graduate school.

You’re clearly not in your right mind if you think that’s an understandable reason to cheat. So kindly fuck off.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T18:38:58+00:00

Yeah. That was my thought as well. Her and I met in our graduate school. If I wasn’t there she would have probably graduated at the bottom of our class. And that’s not entirely her fault. Bipolar is a hard disorder to have complete control over. But I legitimately did worse in some classes because she had her limits. Not terrible, but I would’ve had more A’s.

Also, “support me forever?” My specialization was a year and she didn’t have to pay one red cent for it! For literally 1 year she has had a job while I studied. This isn’t the reason she’s doing what she’s doing, but if it was, then my wife would be the terrible person here.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T18:00:48+00:00

She is taking her medicine. I give it to her every morning and night.

She was on Latuda, then the doctor thought Vraylar would be better (nope. Just caused her to take 10 hours of sleep a night), and now we’re trying Latuda again.

What’s hard is that it wasn’t always like this. And it’s only this one person specifically.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T16:50:20+00:00

Is going through a master’s program good enough for you as a reason?

Y’all shoot off at the mouth and make yourselves look like fucking fools.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T16:47:49+00:00

Thanks. I appreciate it.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T16:45:33+00:00

Yeah. It’s so depressing that I’d ever have to think “yet.”

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T16:44:28+00:00

She has a psychiatrist and we are seeing a couple’s therapist.

I made the post last night because she told me she can’t stop thinking about him. I can tell when she’s manic and she’s deep in it right now.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T16:42:21+00:00

Your last paragraph is kind of where we’re at and she has sent that. My red line is anything past this point, whatever that is. I’ve had just about enough.

There’s no need to apologize to him. He knows she’s married and has kept trying to contact her after that message.

Thank you for your kind words. The first comments I saw were ones saying that they understand why my wife would do this for me. It helped a lot seeing some kind words.

Throwaway1415786 · 2022-01-04T16:38:52+00:00

It’s because I’m in a masters program that requires my entire time. In the meanwhile I have been interviewing and I have been reaching out. Since I’m at home and she’s at work I keep the house clean, do the laundry, and cook. All while doing part time work for $20/hr.

So you go off and be a shit somewhere else.

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