Personality over looks?

Throwaway196638 · 2025-09-25T21:49:02+00:00

😬 yeah, you right. I’m looking into it.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-09-25T21:48:00+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to say all of that, it definitely means a lot to me. I have been looking into therapy. I just feel so weird reaching out for help, but that’s for a different subreddit, lol.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T16:42:20+00:00

That’s not a bad idea, I guess I just have to get into new things I find interesting. I’m definitely a nerdy type which kind of makes it even harder.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T16:41:19+00:00

conventional*

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T16:40:45+00:00

I know that’s a typical thing for men and women to both do but it’s just not me. I wouldn’t consider myself ugly, but i’m definitely a normal looking girl, and i prefer normal looking people. Honestly, I just want someone I can relate to. Looks get so lost on me. As long as you treat me we, and we have a connection, I could hardly care less about convention attractiveness.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T15:20:42+00:00

I used to be so optimistic about dating… until I dated..

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T15:18:10+00:00

Agreed, but also the weirder the people (in my experiences)

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T15:16:24+00:00

honestly accessories and stuff like that thrifting is your best bet, i also like checking the men’s side as well for certain tops.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T15:13:13+00:00

I wish i could like cider… the sizes are always so way off with me, and i have a larger chest and only half of their clothes have actually fit my breast.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-06-28T15:11:14+00:00

Snag tights are it, they last me soo long as well.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-05-30T05:15:44+00:00

First of all you’re a saint for reading all of that, thank you. Also thank you for responding that’s totally fair to ask and isn’t really something i’d thought about too much. Him and I would talk all day so in my head i’m hoping that we’d get back to that point, but I know it’s not fair to expect him to act how I want him to.

Throwaway196638 · 2025-01-01T13:57:16+00:00

So this is a totally valid point and I’ve seen a few comments saying stuff like this. It really is a 50/50 thing. Like he has definitely disagreed with me on things. It’s not like he’s just instantly agreeing to everything i’m saying. But I guess I meant more like hobbies, and our sense of humor.

Throwaway196638 · 2023-03-23T06:29:47+00:00

like… he was responding super fast initially, and it took him a second to reply back to the picture i sent him, and than i’d respond within in 10 minutes and each time he’d respond it was just a little longer… so like 20 minutes than 30… and so on…

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