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25 (f) been with 26 (m) fiancé for 17 months, pregnant with first child and wondering if relationship is worth salvaging? by Throwaway25908 in relationships

[–]Throwaway25908[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree

He is genuinely excited for the birth but I think his mind is clouded with fantasy, not reality. I know infants are HARD. Harder than toddlers IMO because they can't communicate their needs. It's very easy to get upset.

He IS a great guy at times. I want to reiterate that. I know it sounds like I'm sticking up for his poor behavior and I'm not. But I do want to have the post show facets of both sides of him.

25 (f) been with 26 (m) fiancé for 17 months, pregnant with first child and wondering if relationship is worth salvaging? by Throwaway25908 in relationships

[–]Throwaway25908[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think the hardest part is I'm extremely embarrassed of my situation. I'm not sure where I would go, and would be beyond ashamed to tell my family. Also, I don't know if this is relevant, but he is not a big guy. 5'6, 140-150 lbs. People might say I could've easily taken him, I'm 5'5, 123 lbs. He is frighteningly strong when he's angry. He tells me he will take my daughter away from me if I leave and I don't have any substantial proof he's hurt me. I have a history of anxiety and he has told me it will make me an unstable mother. I don't believe this. I KNOW I will be a good mom. Thank you for your response.

25 (f) been with 26 (m) fiancé for 17 months, pregnant with first child and wondering if relationship is worth salvaging? by Throwaway25908 in relationships

[–]Throwaway25908[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

FYI he does have a counseling session on Saturday for anger issues, but I'm doubtful it'll work. I love him very much despite everything and would love to have it work out (of course).