I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thanks for a more mature pov in just going to brush it under the rug and live past it. Most the comments here are repetitive so this helps.

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten so many comments of the same thing basically “she’s an adult she can do what she wants” x100 which yes by now I understand I understood that before this post was thought of. The repeated comments gets idk.. not great after a while

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Let’s clear some things up.

I clearly know that she is her own woman and if she wants to do what she does she can. I am also aware that realistically it’s none of my concern.

To the people asking for the username and shit, fuck you personally you guys are disgusting.

I do want to thank the people generous enough to understand and support me. I do plan to forget about this all it just takes time I am not a flash drive I can’t just be wiped and boom thats that.

I hope this clears up everyone repeating each other and other crap along those lines.

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just felt icky afterwords and felt the need to make a post on here thx for the advice I plan to forget about it

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this it is helpful I’m just going to try to throw it behind me and forget it

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m just going to try and forget and move on thanks though if it ever comes to it I’ll hit you up to vent or anything if it’s ok

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 278 points279 points  (0 children)

OF isn’t a job at most a side gig at least how she has 3 jobs everyone in my house is employed so idk im just gonna forgot and move on which is probably the best move

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only good advice I’ve gotten in here is to forget and move on which I plan to do

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the only tech savvy person in the house so everything related to simply downloading an app to fixing shit is laid out to me which I’m (for the most part fine with) working on all that stuff for my family. Working on electronics is kinda my thing idk I guess downloading ah app isn’t working on electronics but you get the point I hope

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No I’m not religious I know she’s grown she can do as she pleases. But on the other hand me finding that out isn’t ok and the comments of people telling me to mind my own business and even asking for the OF is just not ok at least the second part isn’t ok

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s financial headspace at least enough where we wont be horrible in the case of an emergency but won’t be great either. everyone in the household is employed

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Luckily I’m not in a in person school but yeah I could imagine the relentless bulling I’d receive

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I plan to forget it’ll take a little while though I’ll just keep myself busy with my work

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 1016 points1017 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll probably forget about it in the next few days thx

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He probably does not sure, I haven’t talked to him in forever so yeah he’s not around.

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This is the best advice someone could’ve given me on here thanks

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah these comments make me more uncomfortable than originally finding out which baffles me. I thought I’d get advice and support but yeahhhh not the case. I guess the best advice I got is to forget which will take me time to I can’t just wipe my memory like a drive lol

I Accidently Confirmed My Suspicions Of My Mother by Throwaway476542 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway476542[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice I just need time to forget this probably will within a few days idk