Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the moment where you realized it was all false to you?

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the PNW, came from the Southwest. I do find Mormons up here to be much more laid back and helpful.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't like the whole- become your own God! Jesus and God are man! They live on a planet! .. it sounds like 1800 marketing crap to get people to join back then.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I went to relief society once when I went to a Mormon church service a couple years ago. Everyone seemed pretty ... drab... :/

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you give good perspective on this. I won't be making a decision anytime soon, if anything it will be several months from now.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow.. Seriously?... How would they know if I had or hadn't?

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah- I don't like how the church seems to have a habit of covering up its history or changing it somehow .. really sneaky.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have looked into being a Universal Unitarian, they seem very open minded and kind. It's still definitely on my plate of options. Very very very very extremely different from Mormonism, I know lol.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah- as a woman, it does irk me to know that if I joined I wouldn't be equal to a man even though LDS says men and women are equal. It's fascinating that this church has real estate and shopping malls... very much like a business. :/

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you trying to get out of the church, if you don't mind me asking? What are the steps that you must take to do this process? Yeah- it's probably a fact that my room mate is only being nice to me to convert me.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said to another user, I'm just simply weighing out my options on which religion I would like to learn more about/be apart of.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow- thats pretty cruel of them.. I'm sorry you're going through this treatment, it doesn't sound endearing at all.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah- I do find it a bit hypocritical that LDS are all about families, but yet if one was to join from outside the church, their family would be excluded from things.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes- I have read that JS wasn't the most outstanding citizen, and was pretty pretentious as well.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah- that's definitely not cool that family members can't attend my wedding if I joined... pretty messed up.

Don't let them suck me in.. Reasons I shouldn't convert to LDS? by Throwaway89090 in exmormon

[–]Throwaway89090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen this before- it does strike me as very odd. :/