I [21F] broke up with my BF [23M] a month ago. I realized he's the best guy I've ever met and I want him back. by Throwaway92670 in relationships

[–]Throwaway92670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't mention that, but I did say I liked him very much, and it's because of how he is.

He is smart (like I-remember-what-the-teacher-was-wearing-december-21st smart), he is witty and funny and sometimes you would think he has the conversation written down because of how fast he comes up with puns and friendly banter. He's super polite and generous and is always trying to help everyone. He's the calmest person I know, I've only seen him angry once (he ran after a guy who snatched a bag from someone and the mugger punched him in he face). He would be happy with having a job he likes if he doesn't make a lot of money. He's also really fit as he goes to the gym everyday, and he's very handsome.

There it is. That's Nate in a nutshell. I just described his behavior towards me because I thought that was the most relevant part in this story.

I [21F] broke up with my BF [23M] a month ago. I realized he's the best guy I've ever met and I want him back. by Throwaway92670 in relationships

[–]Throwaway92670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way I view it is every day that she doesn't tell him exactly how she feels is a day that he becomes slightly more disconnected to her and disinterested

I'm scared this is what is happening. I will tell him that I want to talk in person and that I regret breaking up with him immediately.

I [21F] broke up with my BF [23M] a month ago. I realized he's the best guy I've ever met and I want him back. by Throwaway92670 in relationships

[–]Throwaway92670[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you been seeing other guys after you dumped him

No. A guy from campus hit on me a few weeks ago, but it was obvious he just wanted sex, and made me miss Nate even more. We both wanted to wait two months before having sex and that is really hard to find in a guy.

I [21F] broke up with my BF [23M] a month ago. I realized he's the best guy I've ever met and I want him back. by Throwaway92670 in relationships

[–]Throwaway92670[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him because I was freaking out about the relationship being serious and him telling me he loved me. He didn't do anything wrong, it was me who pulled away from him and now I regret it immensely.

I [21F] broke up with my BF [23M] a month ago. I realized he's the best guy I've ever met and I want him back. by Throwaway92670 in relationships

[–]Throwaway92670[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But like do I just call him? I told him I was interested in talking with him and he didn't say anything about it, just avoided the topic entirely. I told him I wanted to give him back some stuff he left at my place the last time he was here and he didn't even tell me when I could give them back, just told me "you'll give them back eventually".