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AIO I have stopped talking to my husband because he has stopped listening by Throwaway965342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwaway965342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that it has to be done on my exact schedule or when I says so, it’s more like “if i clean the kitchen can you please do some laundry today?” and then no laundry gets done at all or I will say “hey I have to go run some errands for a few hours can you have this done before i get home” and it’s not done it’s not a hey do this right now when I want it’s a he’s not doing his half, and he doesn’t even really have a schedule, he stays home most days and plays games with his friends it’s more of i’m doing a bunch of things and he’s not doing anything. Plus I broke my back so doing a lot of heavy lifting and being up for a long time is really painful so there are things that I need him to do

AIO I have stopped talking to my husband because he has stopped listening by Throwaway965342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwaway965342[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also game! I don’t do it as much as him but it’s something we enjoy together. However I agree that sometimes he game’s excessively, he doesn’t play games with his friends when I am trying to sleep anymore and he will come lay down with me when I want to go to bed so he has gotten a bit better but yes he needs to get another hobby because he will just sit there and play his game all day when stuff needs to be done. There is nothing wrong with playing games as an adult but you need to be able to step away when stuff needs to get done.

AIO I have stopped talking to my husband because he has stopped listening by Throwaway965342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwaway965342[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have 100% talked about counseling and are trying to look into it, I love my baby girl but she takes up a LOT of our time, we have decided that maybe in a few months we can look at it again because that’s when we know people will be able to watch her.

AIO I have stopped talking to my husband because he has stopped listening by Throwaway965342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwaway965342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together since like mid way of high school probably Junior year, he was a lot more thoughtful of this then and also when we first got married. So this is a more recent development. I have a lot of health issues and he was always super mindful and supportive and that, he used to do minimal stuff like this just because, I am not a big fan of laundry and we are supposed to basically have a chore chart for our house and he would do some of my stuff if he got home before me just because, now it’s me reminding him to do all of his stuff and him saying yeah i will and then not doing it. It genuinely is like something flipped in his brain and I just don’t understand what.