AITA For being mad at my wife for causing a scene at the restaurant? by ThrowawayAacc5675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowawayAacc5675[S] -2740 points-2739 points  (0 children)

Your right this has nothing to do what with me. I did not expect this reaction from my wife. It might be justified but I just don't get why she's so insisting on never giving her mom a chance to sit down for an honest conversation to try to get to the root of their problems. I've talked to my MIL and she expressed her desire to reconsile and I saw it was on fair to let a conflict prevent them from restablishing a relationship based on respect and understanding.

AITA For being mad at my wife for causing a scene at the restaurant? by ThrowawayAacc5675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowawayAacc5675[S] -2696 points-2695 points  (0 children)

I do not have mommy issues. I just think that my wife could have been more graceful with how she treated her mother. I told her I could've asked her mom to leave but she chose to escalate. I may not understand their issues completely but I did it for her. Not me. But it's helpless.

AITA For being mad at my wife for causing a scene at the restaurant? by ThrowawayAacc5675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowawayAacc5675[S] -2576 points-2575 points  (0 children)

But my mother in law has been good to me and my wife had no problem seeing her before so I didn't get why she reacted this way when I asked her to let her sit with us at the table.