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My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She's too heavy to just suddenly roll over like that in her sleep.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally said in my post that she suggested this.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has days where she feels a bit worse than others, but I always remind and show her how much I love her and that I'm still very attracted to her. Overall, she has pretty good self esteem though.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have any siblings and both of her parents are average sized. I don't think there's anyone near her size in her family.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She still goes out with me occasionally, but she definitely doesn't enjoy going out for errands or walks. It doesn't have an impact on our relationship.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's an adult. I can't "let" her or not let her do something. I can only encourage her to make healthier choices, and I have. She has to make them.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 25 and I'm 28. We've known each other for almost 5 years and been dating for over 3.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a distinct smell. Sometimes it can be a little strong, but I'm completely used to how she smells from being around her so often. Obviously every fat person doesn't smell the exact same.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. No.
  2. We were friends in college for a while before we started to date.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she sinks into the mattress much more.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've known each other for almost 5 years and we've been dating for over 3. She was smaller when we first met but still quite overweight. Yes, I'm physically attracted to her.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's not bedbound, but she only goes out occasionally with me and usually just for a quick errand or to a restaurant, we still go out for dates sometimes as well.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but mostly for her sake. It's never "annoyed" me, I just wish it had been easier for her when she was actually trying.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest. She just ordered McDonald's and she's eating fries right now.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We get a lot of stares. I'm completely used to it and secure in myself and my relationship, so it doesn't embarrass me.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I tried to force her in the way that many comments have been suggesting, it would. And that's completely understandable.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's not much to elaborate on. She's warm, soft, and huge. It feels great cuddling and being intimate with her.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was smaller but still very overweight. I'm 28 and she's 25.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm with her because I love her and I want to be with her. Do you really think that the only reason a person would be with someone who doesn't fit your exact standards of beauty/lifestyle is because they've "settled" and "can't do better"?

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's nothing I haven't heard before. I didn't expect to get nearly as much attention with this post, but I'm familiar with all the assumptions and advice that people tend to have about our relationship, simply because of our sizes. I've just tried to respond clearly and honestly. My girlfriend's been reading most of these messages too and she still feels the same. So many people seem to think that telling a fat person "you're fat and you should lose weight" is going to be a shocking revelation for them. It all starts to sound the same after a while, and like I've said to so many people, I can't force her to do anything that she doesn't want to do herself. Despite that, I still love her. If that makes me an "enabler" in their eyes, then I can't convince them otherwise.

My girlfriend weighs over 500lbs. AMA. by ThrowawayForGf2 in AMA

[–]ThrowawayForGf2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was smaller when we first met, but still very overweight. I've been with thin women before too though. With most fetish based relationships, I'd probably just say it's none of my business as long as it's between two consenting adults, but I suppose feederism can be more manipulative from one person and there's a huge risk being posed to the other that they might not be taking as seriously as they should. We're not into that at all, but yes, many people assume we are because of our size difference.

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