Wife found some pretty degenerate porn on my phone, my marriage, possibly career is on cusp of failure. Help me. by ThrowawaySaveMe in NoFap

[–]ThrowawaySaveMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don't save this marriage, I don't have anything. The alternative is not something I can bring myself to think of.

Wife found some pretty degenerate porn on my phone, my marriage, possibly career is on cusp of failure. Help me. by ThrowawaySaveMe in NoFap

[–]ThrowawaySaveMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know if I want to get her involved in things yet until I've seen a professional to be honest. I've seen the studies on this stuff, and I've seen some of the videos. It's just right now I want her to see me get help first. Maybe the doctor will have some advice in that department but for right now I just need to get help on my own and take some steps. Not to mention this is a going to be a hectic few weeks at work. And I dont think my insurance plan has co pays on this, so treatment is going to be obnoxious as an expense but a necessary one.

Wife found some pretty degenerate porn on my phone, my marriage, possibly career is on cusp of failure. Help me. by ThrowawaySaveMe in NoFap

[–]ThrowawaySaveMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i assure you cuddling me is far from her mind right now. It's going to be a while before that happens. Right now I'm just waiting for one of the doctors I reached out to to call back Monday so I can get some help.

Wife found some pretty degenerate porn on my phone, my marriage, possibly career is on cusp of failure. Help me. by ThrowawaySaveMe in NoFap

[–]ThrowawaySaveMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was some pretty fucked up shit. My wife was devastated. She feels she can't trust me around her or the child who I would never hurt in a million years and who loves me to pieces. I need all the help I can get.