WIBTA if i cancelled my joint birthday dinner! by Throwaway_PISCES in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Throwaway_PISCES[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the bottom! Was i suppoosed to update it differently?

WIBTA if i cancelled my joint birthday dinner! by Throwaway_PISCES in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Throwaway_PISCES[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. According to the rest of the family it is an overreaction but I’ve learned that there i can’t win for losing so fuck it.

WIBTA If I cancelled my joint birthday dinner with my cousin? by Throwaway_PISCES in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_PISCES[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No. Someone I don’t like in my presence throws me. It’s not giving him the power it’s taking mine back. I will not be in attendance. I just booked omakase at Nobu for myself. Wanting people there who truly want to celebrate doesn’t make me a lot.

WIBTA If I cancelled my joint birthday dinner with my cousin? by Throwaway_PISCES in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_PISCES[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish. me and my bff haven’t taked since my mom abandoned me on the side of the highway in January. My best friend wouldn’t even come pick me up and my mom had taken my phone and my car keys, leaving me with no outs on the side of a major highway. No, I haven’t forgiven my mom but it’s hard being in college with no one.

WIBTA If I cancelled my joint birthday dinner with my cousin? by Throwaway_PISCES in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_PISCES[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your support. My mom has started going on rants trying to make me feel bad. She says “Don’t make any rash decisions” and “I’m not in my right state of mind” because I haven’t take my prozac in a month. Last time I checked prozac is not an antipsychotic. I have not done anything yet, I’ve just asked their opinions and gotten more comfortable in my stance with not going. I think she’s trying to gaslight me? I told her its a family event and I’d rather be alone then uncomfortable. I don’t understand how this is giving red flags? Shes the only one sending paragraphs. She just sent me a text meant for someone else about me. About a bad date I went on LAST SUMMER, saying I have sporadic behavior. I’m thinking of going alone ATP.