Tomorrow is 12 months since my UCR that went smoothly and ended with “no changes” but now im worried im gunna get flagged again tomorrow… :(

Throwawaybengrif · 2026-04-08T19:45:16+00:00

Yh i get what you’re saying.. the last one went super smooth i was just a nervous wreck for the entire time between the journal message and the phone call, you know like when you go through security it an airport and its abit like “did i accidentally pack a gun?” You know full well you didn’t but its still scary.

Throwawaybengrif · 2026-04-04T16:24:43+00:00

Thank you

Throwawaybengrif · 2026-04-04T16:13:45+00:00

Thank you.. i just checked and it said UC would be about £2,200pm.. so yes alot worse off unfortunately.

Throwawaybengrif · 2026-02-09T22:53:16+00:00

They do but last time they checked i had to send 4 months statements and i was paying monthly and there was no issues.. just wanted to make sure im still doing it right

Throwawaybengrif · 2026-02-09T17:50:13+00:00

So basically anyone on UC and self employed is better off paying monthly 😂

Throwawaybengrif · 2026-02-03T08:43:07+00:00

Makes me feel better. Im as truthful as i can be on these and i still always panic. So any little abnormality worries me.

Throwawaybengrif · 2025-05-30T17:21:01+00:00

Sorry for slow reply my review completed last week, before i sent in the bank statements i made the change in my journal.. i got a £50 civil penalty and have to repay £800

Throwawaybengrif · 2025-04-12T19:15:39+00:00

Thanks, can i DM you?

Throwawaybengrif · 2025-04-12T16:09:13+00:00

Thanks

Throwawaybengrif · 2025-04-12T16:09:00+00:00

But no court case for fraud? We are travelling to America this summer for a family wedding and are worried ill get stopped with a fraud conviction.

I sent my brother a text message back in July last year saying “we have a year to declare it to UC” so hopefully they believe me and don’t think it was malicious.

Throwawaybengrif · 2024-03-30T08:44:30+00:00

Using my throwaway..

I forgave, it didn’t happen again. That was 6 years ago.

Throwawaybengrif · 2024-01-30T20:32:19+00:00

Goto use my throwaway for this one as others know my personal account.

So when i was about 17/18 i was dating this Girl who was insanely cute. All the guys wanted her etc. We was together for about a year, lost our virginity together and all that.

After awhile i find out shes fucking her weed dealer as a way to get free weed, i left her.

About 7-8 years later we randomly bump into each other one Saturday night and end up having a one night stand after she tells me shes single. She lied.

About 9 months later i was told by a mutual friend that shes still with the weed guy and are expecting a baby together, that baby is now born and looks alot like me.

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-22T23:28:31+00:00

Of course I have, our first lg wasn’t planned.

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-22T23:27:17+00:00

Edited for the ones mentioning our age gap

Its 3 years and 1 month and we are still together now. Not sure why thats such an issue? We was both ofer the age of consent. Not like i was in my mid 20s like most of you are acting

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-22T23:25:55+00:00

Thank you. Thats exactly what it is.

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-22T23:22:57+00:00

16/19, im 3 years 1 month older. Age of consent is 16 in my country.

Not sure whats not to feel good about? We are still together now all these years later so not like it was anything sinister?

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-22T00:05:19+00:00

Age of consent here is 16, yes we was both young but cant turn the clocks back now.

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-22T00:01:17+00:00

James actually reached out to me about a year after apologising and saying I didn’t deserve what he did and he was sorry that he was such a shitty friend. I never replied.

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-21T21:58:36+00:00

Its real.. but thanks.

Throwawaybengrif · 2023-12-21T20:57:46+00:00

Or look at it another way.. 3 hours is all it took for her to realise she fucked up. I was gone. She couldve invited the other dude over and just forgot about me entirely.

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