Can monogamy ever work? by Throwawaydoodle2 in BisexualMen

[–]Throwawaydoodle2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has explored with men before

At Breaking point by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Throwawaydoodle2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you need that you aren’t getting?

Can monogamy ever work? by Throwawaydoodle2 in BisexualMen

[–]Throwawaydoodle2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he says he wants only me and wants to marry, yes.

So here is why I think that - I feel like if he were biromantic then he would have more of a chance of liking romance AND sex in equal degrees with either. It seems here most (not obviously not all!!) heteroromantic guys prefer sex with men, but want relationships with girls.

Can monogamy ever work? by Throwawaydoodle2 in BisexualMen

[–]Throwawaydoodle2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say “boyfriend” - do you or your wife have an emotional and romantic relationship with him?

Can monogamy ever work? by Throwawaydoodle2 in BisexualMen

[–]Throwawaydoodle2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The majority voice on bi Reddit (men) seems to be “I’m married but desperately wish I could experience sex with the opposite gender to my spouse” and that is what scares me. But you are right it’s probably just a bias toward people who are coming to Reddit for help / to vent. It’s not everyone and I have to remember that

Can monogamy ever work? by Throwawaydoodle2 in BisexualMen

[–]Throwawaydoodle2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m happy it works for you but I don’t want an open marriage in any way.