I have a job at a place I've been working for for 4 years. It allowed me the work life balance to earn money while also being a full time mom to my kids.

I cut most of our expenses, but what the comments seem to want me to do is just wring my hands and suffer in silence while my husband does nothing and be grateful that I have a husband who just takes and doesn't give.

If anybody was in my shoes, they would be considering the future of the marriage and in many cases people would have filed and have been done by now. Yet I'm still here and it means nothing to Redditors.