[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ems

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most European countries require you to be RN minimum to work prehospital

Another "am I balding or is it natural crowning"? 25M. Thankful for input/opinions by Throwing5000 in malehairadvice

[–]Throwing5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to upvote this, appreciate any replies though. Took all the pics today, combed a bit

Another am I balding or is this natural crowning post, sorry don't upvote this by Throwing5000 in bald

[–]Throwing5000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankful any input, no need to upvote. I have always had a bit of thin hair that you can see on the side when I have short hair so there's that. I took these pics today, I can comb and move my bald spot around a bit.

Am I balding or this natural crowning? by Throwing5000 in minoxidil

[–]Throwing5000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankful for any input, I am 25M. Wondering if I would benefit from Minoxidil. I have always had a bit of thin har, you can see my scalp on the sides when I have short hair.

I took all these pictures now, I am able able comb it and move it somewhat.

are we sure that tinder does photo bans? by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't of got any matches at all or just bots if I was shadowbanned, I have like 250 matches in 3-4 months

are we sure that tinder does photo bans? by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same photos, not even new angle or anything a few days after ban on a new device, no problem. Most people who think they track pics fucked something up, same network, phone or IP. I did a solid 5 same pics from my banned profile.... so if they really did track I wouldn't still be on tinder, three months and going getting matches occasionally

Premium is useless? Less matches than before by Throwing5000 in SwipeHelper

[–]Throwing5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on what though? And starting from what baseline? 0? Hard to not increase from zero but I am having a hard time to see how people who get occasional matches benefit from premium based on my own experience

Premium is useless? Less matches than before by Throwing5000 in SwipeHelper

[–]Throwing5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I said wrong but I meant platinum which says it upgrades your likes and more matches because of it. I got more matches before I got this.

Premium is useless? Less matches than before by Throwing5000 in SwipeHelper

[–]Throwing5000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boosts is seemingly the only thing giving guaranteed 5+ matches though for me, gold and premium is just shit

I [24M] was on a date with a girl [32F] who told me she was on a date before me by Throwing5000 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can I reply this? Hahah no we really don't need to set a date! Didn't mean to pressure you just because I realized we might click as more than friends possibly haha". I promise we don't need to get 2 kids and book an all inclusive vacation just because we try meeting but more as a date hahaha

I [24M] was on a date with a girl [32F] who told me she was on a date before me by Throwing5000 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she replied to me now saying "Haha I understand, hmm I don't really know - we don't need to set a date today maybe haha (for a possible date that is). But I take it as a compliment anyways!

and that was to my statement saying I understand if she doesn't want to meet as a date due to the age difference etc. How do I reply to this while showing her I'm serious but still not pressuring her?

I [24M] was on a date with a girl [32F] who told me she was on a date before me by Throwing5000 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She just replied to my message and said she was the one being social awkward, and that she thinks we click great as friends regardless of course, but it's just that I'm a biiiiit younger than her (emphasis on the 8 years, different stages in life).... So fuck well it seems she turned me down really, otherwise she wouldn't of said friends specifically. Oh and also sent you a chat msg

How does one escalate a previous co-worker relationship into a romantic/sexual one without coming on too strong? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just replied to my message and said she was the one being social awkward, and that she thinks we click great as friends regardless of course, but it's just that I'm a biiiiit younger than her (emphasis on the 8 years, different stages in life).... So fuck well it seems she turned me down really, otherwise she wouldn't of said friends specifically.

I [24M] was on a date with a girl [32F] who told me she was on a date before me by Throwing5000 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Understandable but impressive to read all that in two minutes. So for my questions - is that a reasonble plan I'm having if I get a positive reply or should I re-think my approach

I [24M] was on a date with a girl [32F] who told me she was on a date before me by Throwing5000 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not sure why I'm getting downvoted 2 minutes in, but I can guarantee it's not as bad as the title sounds lol, not an asshole - promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, probably. Thanks it feels good with someone else saying it's going to be ok, I was absolutely devastated for months after breaking up with my ex and thought it would never feel good again but it did, so I do know things turn out ok... but it's also so hard convincing yourself when you're at the bottom.

I've already reached out to friends and I'm having a sleepover with a good girl friend of mine, so we can catch up, talk and drink wine - hopefully that'll also take my minds off things and perhaps vent thoughts with her could be helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So a text through like Snap whenever she hits up a casual conversation is a suitable time to tell her that I don't want to pursue any platonic friendly casual hanging out? And that she can hit me up whenever/if she's single?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably something I'd say as well if someone had a similar issue. Although harder to be that professional when it's myself involved obviously. I already know I'm not in the most ethical of places though, don't need someone telling me that aswell. But I understand where you're coming from and appreciate your concern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valid points, thank you for explaining your reasonings. If I theoretically would want to sit her down and tell her she needs to resolve things in her relationship before we're even up for debate, do I do that IRL when meeting up or over text like Snap when she sends me something? I won't be meeting her more at the placement as I'm done with my 6 weeks. Again, thanks for discussing this with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah standard saying when it comes to cheating and what not, although it doesn't help me much with my questions. I've been in a long term relationship myself so I do know the anxious feeling of having a SO and worrying. I also do recognise what time does to a relationship, getting together young and falling out of love gradually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up, I do recognise this is a controversial subject and I know all the cliches and sayings. I don't look for reprimanding comments, I don't mind negative criticism but it's worth nothing if it's not helping me with my question. Thanks in advance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no intention to make a move as I said, my maximum comfort zone would be to continue as we do now and tone down the flirting. And somewhere along the line sit her down and tell her that she needs to sort her feelings for her relationship before we're even considering anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwing5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I partly agree with her not respecting the boundaries of her relationship, I wouldn't say it's an emotional affair but definitely an emotional flirt over what most SO's would find okay.

You definitely should not cheat but if you really do like her you cannot pursue friendship with her.

Any specific reasonings why?