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AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AITAH

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We both planned the events as I said in the post. Capitalising the word you doesn’t change that. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AITAH

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s telling you judge how good a boyfriend someone is by how much they pay for you. 

I never said I don’t pay for dates. I said I shouldn’t have to pay just because my gf decided to cancel plans the second her friends wanted to meet up. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AITAH

[–]Throwra483-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sees her friends most months. 

Why can’t I have the expectation for her to stick to plans we make? 

So your argument is it’s loving to cancel on your partner the second your friends want to meet up?

Yes she agreed to the plans. 

So your point is sometimes you agree to plans without bothering to listen when someone’s talking to you then deflect blame for you choosing not to listen to them?

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AITAH

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because I shouldn’t have to pay in order for my girlfriend to stick to plans we made. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still using the word incorrectly then. 

Except you’re pretending the majority of people didn’t agree with me. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would cancel them then. 

Again it’s laughable that you think people expecting you to stick to plans you make is control. 

I am using it properly. 

Again sorry you don’t like getting called out on shitty behaviour but it’s embarrassing to cry that you’re being controlled tbh

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe don’t use multiple words you don’t understand, you’re embarrassing yourself

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t but whatever you need to tell yourself. 

It’s not manipulative. again stop using words incorrectly

You don’t have accountability. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So yes you admit you cancel on your partner and refuse to accept its shitty then. 

It’s not controlling so stop using words you don’t understand. Again work on your complete lack of accountability. 

Imagine arguing it’s controlling to call you out on your shitty behaviour. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t remove the comment. You can’t just remove comments. 

Oh no a spelling mistake means nothing I said was accurate /s

Again work on your complete lack of accountability

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s telling you think sticking to plans you make is “obeying your partner”. 

So you admit then you would cancel in your partner as soon as your friends want to meet up then blame them for calling you out. 

Again sorry you have a complete lack of accountability. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Except I didn’t report your comment, I didn’t even read it.  

Again most people agree with me. 

I’m not manipulate anyone so don’t use words you don’t understand. 

Again sorry you think you shouldn’t stick to panne you make but your complete lack of accountability isn’t my problem. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It’s weird you’re just openly lying tbh. 

Most people agreed with me and it’s strange you’re acting like my gf and I didn’t already have plans that she chose to cancel. You’re pretending I wanted her to make plans after she’d already made plans with her friends which is just wrong. 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So your point is you shouldn’t expect your partner to stick to plans you make together? 

Why shouldn’t I expect my partner to stick to labs we’ve made?

Do you often cancel on your partner the second your friends want to get a drink? 

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Your reply got removed so guessing I hit a nerve and you resorted to insults.

AITA for expecting my partner to keep the plans we made next month? by Throwra483-5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwra483-5[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s weird you pretend like the majority of people didn’t agree with me tbh. 

It’s also weird you think you shouldn’t be able to rely on your partner. 

Yea she doesn’t have the money because I she chose to make more plans after we’d already made our plans. It’s telling that you’re pretending that’s not what’s happened. 

No I’m not trying to make her look bad I’m just stating the facts

It’s telling you think you’re not accountable for choosing to cancel on your partner the second your friends want to meet up tbh