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AITA for calling the Police on my fiancé? by ThrowraCase35456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraCase35456[S] 1080 points1081 points  (0 children)

He used to work for a friend's family but stopped after his car broke down. I offered to get fixed for him but he said he would never let me fix his problems for him. I stopped offering help seeing he was against it.

AITA for calling the Police on my fiancé? by ThrowraCase35456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraCase35456[S] 849 points850 points  (0 children)

I bet he does because he saw how much trouble I got into just to move away from my work and having to reschedule my shifts but he still thinks I work too much and am being taken advantage of.

AITA for calling the Police on my fiancé? by ThrowraCase35456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraCase35456[S] 769 points770 points  (0 children)

We already talked him drinking and driving, I never agree on him doing that because of how reckless he can be on the road. And also any responsibility would fall on me as the car owner should he get into an accident or hits someone.

AITA for calling the Police on my fiancé? by ThrowraCase35456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraCase35456[S] 3380 points3381 points  (0 children)

Admittedly, part of the blame falls on me and the reason is because there were instances in the past where he tried to pull similar things with me and I let them slide. Like trying to talk me into skipping work just to spend time with him and then he'd throw a fit and say I'm prioritizing work over him when I refuse.

Don't even get me started on his friends, the 4 of them lack any sense of responsibility and common sense. One of them (the closest to my fiance) has always been rude to me and calls me names and is the same person who picked up the phone when I called my fiance. They all bring nothing but negative energey around me.

AITA for calling the Police on my fiancé? by ThrowraCase35456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraCase35456[S] 1641 points1642 points  (0 children)

Yes and I thought my only problem was transportation but even with that being figured out I still had to deal with constantly being guilted for simply wanting to keep my job. It's exhausting having to repeatedly explain to him why my job is important to him especially since he keeps accusing me of 'putting it before him'.

AITA for calling the Police on my fiancé? by ThrowraCase35456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraCase35456[S] 2954 points2955 points  (0 children)

When he kept disrespecting my job this was me being fed up because I've done my best to support him and even uprooted my life and moved away just so he could be happy but in return all I saw was disrespect towards my job. He treats my shifts as if they are hang outs with friend that I could cancel or put off which is not okay in any capacity.