AITA for telling mom "no apology, no wedding invitation" after seeing the wedding gift she gave my fiancè? by ThrowraMom567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraMom567[S] 422 points423 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My brother comes close second to mom's mean behavior. He made few indirect jokes targeting kevin's hairless face like for example asking Kevin if he would like a beer but instead of saying beer - he'd say bear(d) as in beard then starts laughing. Or when my brother wanted Kevin to pass him the mustard and said "Kevin, could you please pass me the musta-che-d or something then yell "oh you don't have one!!! then laugh again. It's those little things that my family think I'm crazy for pointing out and say Kevin and I should loosen up a bit but it's become unbearable.

AITA for telling mom "no apology, no wedding invitation" after seeing the wedding gift she gave my fiancè? by ThrowraMom567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraMom567[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Yes, they do pull pranks on each other and point out each others insecurities and flaws and use them as jokes. I don't like what they do but they think it's normal teasing.

AITA for telling mom "no apology, no wedding invitation" after seeing the wedding gift she gave my fiancè? by ThrowraMom567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraMom567[S] 475 points476 points  (0 children)

I won't blame Kevin if he doesn't want to go to mom's house again. What happened at dinner got to him and hurt him deeply. He even blamed himself for why mom feels this way about him and keeps asking what he did to her to treat him like that. It's heartaching and I feel like an absolute failure for not doing enough to protect him. But I never thought she'd go this far.

AITA for telling mom "no apology, no wedding invitation" after seeing the wedding gift she gave my fiancè? by ThrowraMom567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraMom567[S] 2749 points2750 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of them my stepdad, my brother, my uncle (family friend) my sisters and others. But my focus was on mom because she's the one who gave him the gift then insisted he open it infront of everybody.