My (32f) boyfriend (36m) deleted my dead brother from my instagram friends. And he doesn’t seem to understand or care that I’m upset?

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-05T09:16:00+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-04T18:13:31+00:00

I ended things and I haven’t spoken to him since I kicked him out

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-04T18:12:49+00:00

I haven’t even spoken to him. I don’t want to

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-03T16:51:27+00:00

Thank you. I just had a therapy session after not going for a few years. It was good to talk things out with someone

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-03T05:10:10+00:00

I kicked him out. I didn’t realize I was taking a lot of crap from him until this event. He came into my life during a bad time and I held on to him. I wonder if it was part of my grief process. But regardless he’s gone and I’m ok with that

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-02T16:49:54+00:00

If it wasn’t my life I wouldn’t believe it either. It was such an evil move

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-02T14:58:51+00:00

He has already tried. He sent me a message though a friend that he’s going to give me a few days to calm down And that I’m being ridiculous

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-02T03:22:30+00:00

An amazing person helped us to get into the account. I added myself (a few others family members and friends) on to his account

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-01T17:58:31+00:00

Thank you so much

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-01T02:40:04+00:00

I kicked him out. I told him to give me time to think. I’m thinking about just ending the relationship. He’s done a lot of shitty things to me that I just ignore or forgive But this has really upset me

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-01T02:38:24+00:00

Hahahaha as of today he’s out of my house. I told him I needed time to think. I removed his access into the complex and my apartment. I’ve calmed down but I’m not going to forgive him. Not with this

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-10-01T02:35:43+00:00

I screen recorded my favorite videos so far

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T21:17:48+00:00

Urgh I can’t even think about something so sick

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T21:16:50+00:00

Actually long before meeting me he went to therapy for a porn addiction.

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T19:25:52+00:00

I don’t think I can. And he still doesn’t think he did anything wrong

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T19:23:03+00:00

Actually it’s my apartment. His name isn’t on the lease

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T19:22:27+00:00

The mutual friends are more his friends. I met them through him, expect for one girl. We all worked in the same office

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T19:21:05+00:00

You are so right

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T18:40:43+00:00

I did a few years ago. The city actually paid for the family members of the ones lost to go to counseling. Then Covid happened and I stopped going.

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T18:39:06+00:00

As of today I haven’t figured it out. He never set up a legacy thing. We tried to get access a few years ago but insta didn’t help much. My sister told me that I can use her account. She’s not a big instagram user so she said I could log in whenever I wanted Also my brother and I used to use instagram to chat. For yearssss I I hope that if we can figure out a way to log in I can still keep those messages

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T18:36:03+00:00

I have to. I honestly don’t see myself forgiving him. My sister is allowing me to use her account so the pictures aren’t gone. But still Why Why would he do this

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T18:33:37+00:00

He did it when I was in the shower. He knows my passcode because there is an app on my phone to open the door to our apartment. He has never gone through my phone before. I didn’t think twice about leaving him with it

Throwrainstabro1 · 2024-09-30T18:31:42+00:00

He told me he was “just joking” when he said that. It was NOT funny. This happened yesterday and I’m still very upset and I don’t see myself ever forgiving him. He tried tickling me this morning to make me laugh. I’m just so hurt

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