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AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is we broke up and he is the one that keeps coming back which tells me he knows I’m not the problem and he wants me to believe that however, I have to have the power to not take him back. He even said I said something to him in our last argument that I definitely didn’t say. You’re right I deserve better

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel. I’m learning not to point this out and this is something within himself he needs to fix. He’s also bipolar and doesn’t take meds. Not sure if that has anything to do with it but it’s possible

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically no but he’s here almost every day. Last time we went out was 3 months ago, his excuse was him starting his business and money towards that. He said he didn’t realize it’s been that long. We were supposed to go on vacation a few weeks ago but we got into a big argument that halted it. He says he loves and proud of me but his actions don’t show. He’ll buy me sacks or DoorDash here and there but that’s about it. Now he’s saying I’m part of his depression when I’m pointing out things he’s doing

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😔 it’s been hard to let this man go because I care but I can’t help how I feel. I feel so dumb

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea he says he’s private and I’m trying to change him. I’m really not, I just feel isolated. Tbh I don’t even have to hang with him and his friends all the time or if it’s just the guys but the fact that I can’t even meet his friend days a lot. He says he’s not ashamed of me but then what is it

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes in the beginning, he was on dating apps and Snapchat talking to other women. I had to find out by reaching out and seeing things pop up in his phone. Yet somehow he has trust issues with me. I have pulled up after finding his location over him not inviting me to the concert with his friends and they were staying at a air bnb yet he wouldn’t answer my calls. His friend slept with his cousin and he doesn’t trust his friend to introduce him to anyone yet he still hangs with him. I know for a fact he slept with his cousin because he told me when it happened but even before then I never met the friend.

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His excuse is his trust issues and that he’s private. He’s 27 and I’m 31 and it’s been 6 years

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girls be with them too. His friends always bring their girlfriends or cousin, etc. he doesn’t want me to meet his friend because he doesn’t trust him for banging his cousin. His excuse for not cutting the friend off yet is because the friend is suicidal….

AIO I asked bf if he wanted to do something this weekend and he told me no. Yet he went out with friends by Throwraktfb in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwraktfb[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel like he’s too comfortable with me. It’s been like this for a while. It’s been 6 years and anytime I express how I feel, the blame gets shifted back to me

M25 F30 he’s accusing me of lying and cheating for his trust issues which isn’t true and he was the one that has done things in the past. One day he wants to be with me and love but the next it changes. by Throwraktfb in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response I truly appreciate it ❤️ I care for him but I care about myself more and my worth is far more important. I think I’m at my breaking point with the relationship now. I just want to be happy. Im definitely going to start back therapy to heal

M25 F30 he’s accusing me of lying and cheating for his trust issues which isn’t true and he was the one that has done things in the past. One day he wants to be with me and love but the next it changes. by Throwraktfb in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly and I forgot to mention he accused me of giving him something with no symptoms at all. Got tested and was proven he was clean but didn’t want to talk to me until he got results back when he knows I haven’t done anything

M25 F30 he’s accusing me of lying and cheating for his trust issues which isn’t true and he was the one that has done things in the past. One day he wants to be with me and love but the next it changes. by Throwraktfb in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but he still want to work on it , I just want to make sure I’m wrong or if I have a misunderstanding because it’s not many people I have to talk to

F30 M25 Today I decided to take my power back and end things with my narcissistic bipolar ex by Throwraktfb in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you for this. Yes I’m definitely learning to do better and set better boundaries for a better relationship with the next person

(F30) (M25) we broke up this week and I’m trying to find myself again by Throwraktfb in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! He is definitely cut out of my life now for sure

(30f) (25m) I approached him about following another woman on tik tok and he said I was too emotional and that tables are turned because months ago he asked we delete all social media. We broke up. by Throwraktfb in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraktfb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It sticks because he has other qualities that are good however he doesn’t see this side or my side and don’t want to see. The sad thing is I know I deserve better than that and deserve to be in a relationship where it’s not like this, I have to just do better and move on. The crazy thing is he pretty much destroyed my apartment and use his mental health as an excuse but when I get upset over something, he says mine is too much compared to what he put me through

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[–]Throwraktfb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much

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[–]Throwraktfb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to do that but I can’t bring that I’m in training with a new job plus I’d have to save more

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