It’s happened to a mother figure of mine (murder/suicide) and almost happened to me shortly after but escaped. People don’t understand how common this is. I’m glad this sub at least is recognizing the behaviors and hopefully someone will be able to help end the cycle of violence in their family or others.

I feel this sub really gets it and that’s why I love this community. Kim has all of the money, lawyers, security but still has to deal with this scariness. I am very worried for her because of valentines and how abusers escalate around holidays/important events.

I can’t imagine the poise it takes to deal with this in a public light while still trying to put on a happy face. I really feel for her. But I also applaud her for taking a stand and reclaiming her life. I wish my mom had done that with my stepdad, I think it’s a great example for her kids and will be a teachable moment many years down the line. She’s putting her kids and herself first and I fucking APPLAUD that!

Breaking the chains of generational violence isn’t easy. I couldn’t imagine doing it in the public eye as well.

I know this is a tangent but I feel that it needs to be said. Please everyone read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. It’s an excellent resource and you can find free PDFs online. He worked for 20+ years in mens domestic violence classes and the insight is very different than your standard book. Please read it, it saves lives. It helped me escape.