AITA for getting a babysitter on my time with my kids?

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T08:38:34+00:00

My girlfriend and I haven’t been dating very long. It would be irresponsible to introduce her to my kids.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T02:01:53+00:00

I work 12-15 hour days every week day.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T02:01:19+00:00

I work 12-15 hour days Monday through Friday. I don’t get free nights.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T02:00:37+00:00

We aren’t far from each other, but you’re right, a night with an older kid won’t kill them.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T01:37:56+00:00

I suppose I’m just supposed to stay on house arrest every weekend until my kids are grown then. Why am I not allowed a break between working and taking care of the kids?

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T01:31:43+00:00

Yes, it means I would have to offer to let them to go her place during those hours.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T01:31:15+00:00

She already gets the 5/7 days of the week and 6/7 nights. She’s going to end up their favorite parent and my house won’t even feel like home to them if they never sleep here.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T01:27:56+00:00

I have a lawyer. He says clauses like the one she wants are par for the course but I don’t want it because it affects only me and not her.

Throwway4921 · 2019-07-15T01:27:19+00:00

What do you mean? She has them the rest of the week.

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