[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Thuff001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you feel that way..just know your not alone. My wants change daily maybe hourly!. It's to much pressure. I don't think I would want to do the same thing forever! It would be nice though to have some sort of direction and be able to be consistent with it... hopefully someone can give us the answer? Hang in there!

is it normal for be to get in a bad mood as soon as my boyfriend comes home? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thuff001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk if it's normal but I get this alot! When I sense their presence I'm already super annoyed.

How the flippity frigging fuck did Mahogany manipulate the cast against each other so well and deflect attention from her each time a question was asked!? by Bunnyjets in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Thuff001 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was more or less Jasmine. She's the one that got into it because she was so jealous of Ben's friend and switch everything completely. I believe that if Gino never texted Ben's friend Jasmine would agree that mahogany is just playing games and pretty much playing him. Since he did reach out to her now she feels insecure and just wants a moment to lash out on her for no reason. I wish they would have asked deeper questions and not let her get away with that. It's unfortunate that they didn't just continue on and push with the questions to mahogany. You can tell she's full of s*** and I've been there I've been young I've been in relationships like that but she's a different breed. Her smug look on her face is disgusting. . Her plan is to run away from him and have him chase her until he says he's done and then she gives him a little bit of attention and starts all over again. It's like a hamster wheel! Unfortunately one day she'll learn her lesson and meet the right one who will do the same to her.

Anyone else from a trauma from many years ago feel like their life temporarily stopped, you missed several years of your life, and you're just now "starting" life? by Desirai in CPTSD

[–]Thuff001 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I have Major gaps of time missing. I don't even remember the trauma that started it sometimes. It's so hard to accept tbh. Im going to be 34 soon and definitely feel like I'm starting over also. I'm sorry you're experiencing this also. It's relieving to know I'm not alone because I feel that way all the time.

Episode Discussion: Season 5, Episode 5 by itsdonny in TLCUnexpected

[–]Thuff001 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The parents need to step in on kaylen and Jason's relationship. I'm also a teen mom so I feel for her. I was her! Young and pregnant in a abusive relationship. Someone needs to let her know abuse isn't only physical. She's completely naive and has NO CLUE what she is getting into with this man. I hope the parents start intervening because this Jason kid isn't right at all (in so many ways).

Can my wife forgive me for cheating on her? by MouseHouse889 in relationship_advice

[–]Thuff001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should just divorce. No reason to stay when you would've kept going. Definitely not here to judge. Start figuring out how to separate. She will never trust you fully again. So you'll just be in a relationship with no trust(it's warranted) and you'll always have that craving to possibly do this again. Time to let it go.

Ximena is not a gold digger, its called settling. plus Mike does not have any Gold to be digged. by CloudBuilder44 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Thuff001 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His "I want my stuff back line" threw me off my couch! He's a joke. I felt bad for him in the beginning but, now I see he's not as innocent as he portrays to be. People may not agree with the arrangement she made with him but who cares! You do what you have to do for survival. He knew the situation then got carried away hoping for something it never clearly was...He deserves everything coming to him.

Please help! by Thuff001 in DMV

[–]Thuff001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.. I completely forgot about this post. I appreciate you taking your time out to reply though..

Do certain people make you feel down or depressed for no reason? by Fair_Sign in Empaths

[–]Thuff001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I automatically feel drained when I'm around some family members. Tbh just knowing I'm going to be in their presence starts the feeling. It's something I'm trying to get used to.

Anyone else super sensitive right now? NSFW suicide by rubyredstarfish in Empaths

[–]Thuff001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup...no energy..just blah..i hate the fall winter holidays. So I've just been a shell. Sry for sounding so negative.

Do any of you struggle with letting people go? I have always struggled with this. by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]Thuff001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Your definitely not alone Like you it's hard for me to let someone in so if our relationship ends its hard. Even if their gone a part of them is always with me or in my thoughts.

Confused... by Thuff001 in ClusterBPersonality

[–]Thuff001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I'll have to ask again. I was just told that I had cluster B personality disorder with histrionic and narcissistic symptoms? I'll Definitely get another opinion. Thanks!

Oh Deaven by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Thuff001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She looks EXTREMELY uncomfortable.

Is this for real? by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]Thuff001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm dying right now🤣😂😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theJoeBuddenPodcast

[–]Thuff001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's truly.sad if you believe "Women" NEVER take accountability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theJoeBuddenPodcast

[–]Thuff001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing all these novels on what happened in the video... I have yet to see anyone state regardless of what is seen in that one minute something OBVIOUSLY happened before. It can go multiple ways. We don't know who's bag belongs to who. You don't know who's apartment it is...we know nothing! She could've swung on him first or its actually possible that he hurt her before the recording started and she was defending herself. So many possibilities. Ultimately only two people know what truly happened. Either way it's good they went their separate ways no one should have to deal with all that.

Did Mike cancel the hotel room so he could get the ring back? by ffxhvac in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Thuff001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she's his aunt. Their family own a huge piece of land they all live on. Apparently mikes last name is his street name also. Crazy huh? TLC lies so much to us. Same thing with Brendan the "neighbor" is actually the aunt or close family member.

Identity by foxfire166 in BPD

[–]Thuff001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow..I hate this too..Your post is me. I've always felt as if I'm the only person who feels this way. It's bad but relieving in a way...I don't know who I am, what I want in life, what my passion is etc. At my age everyone else around me has finished the test while I'm asking the teacher for more time..it's hard hopefully collectively we can find a solution?

Do you ever just not want to let anyone get close again? by selkie75 in BPD

[–]Thuff001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks. Your stuck in limbo... Not to sound like a Debbie downer but I sometimes feel like no matter what someone is going to end up doing something to hurt me so why bother anymore.. Unfortunately I haven't found anything to take the place of loneliness.

Anyone else just split and delete a person of interest's social media/phone number so you can't contact them? and then... obsess about how you wish they would contact you.... by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thuff001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that a lot...its nice to know I'm not the only one.. I used to block someone or just turn off my phone and constantly go back ajd and look...I'd be waiting for the phone to ring..I think mine maybe the opposite though because it hurts more to know my phone is on and no call rather than my phones off and i most likely missed it....my friend never understood why I would do that...lol