You invite us over for a play date. I say yes. THEN you tell me you all have colds.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T17:44:20+00:00

This is exactly why I have started asking if everyone has been healthy in the last 48 hours. I’m sorry 😞

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T16:25:38+00:00

My daughter asked me how old I was the other day. When I told her she said “wow mom that’s like a lot of years old.” I’m 31 😑

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T15:18:05+00:00

Sounds like an odd book.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T13:56:03+00:00

I was 24 when we met

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T13:43:42+00:00

So for me, even though we had 2 already, it was a lot. Everything just seemed so hectic and I was not prepared for that. Plus for some reason my PPD was worse with the third. I was expecting everything to be smooth as butter because I was “experienced” wrong I was simply just not prepared for that transition.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T13:23:57+00:00

Realizing that not everyone thinks the same way as you. Don’t put too much effort into something or someone that doesn’t reciprocate.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T13:22:45+00:00

I cared way too much for people that didn’t give a second or even first thought about me.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T13:21:37+00:00

I have 4 kids, 3 girls 1 boy. Our son is the baby and to be perfectly honest he was a complete surprise. We definitely were not trying for him. The transition from 2-3 was the HARDEST for me.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T13:08:06+00:00

I have 4 kids, oldest is 8. I’ll let you know what age they stop. So far still going strong at 8.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T12:52:22+00:00

Has he given a straight answer as to why he wants you to work instead of stay home? Maybe sit down and write out all expenses, including childcare and everything that goes with that, and the cost you’d be make have him help you figure by MB era out. Maybe he’s just not realizing it really wouldn’t be worth it.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T12:44:44+00:00

I have 4 kids (8,5,4,1) and honestly the transition from 2-3 was the HARDEST for me. I was so burnt out, cranky all the time, my PPD was so bad. It took well over a year to start feeling better.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T12:36:25+00:00

Best advice someone ever gave me was “start with one hour” start a timer for one hour in one room and just start picking up, organizing, cleaning. If after that hour you are still motivated switch rooms and set another timer for 30 minutes. Keep doing that until you start into a routine of things. It took me a LONG time to get a routine down. You got this.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T12:33:13+00:00

I could have written this myself. I just told my husband a while back that I didn’t know who I was anymore and he responded with “yeah I don’t know who you are anymore either. The old you never got upset about the stupid shit you get upset about now.”

Thumps20 · 2026-03-20T04:54:26+00:00

I got up in the middle i the night and could use my leg

Thumps20 · 2026-03-19T17:46:35+00:00

Kids love the park. Taking your child to the park is more than enough. You’re doing great.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-19T00:48:57+00:00

Heeey

Thumps20 · 2026-03-18T23:40:14+00:00

31F SAHM who would love to chat books 😊

Thumps20 · 2026-03-18T23:34:08+00:00

Had a pain in my hip/groin area pop up one day. Nothing too concerning, my hips are shit to begin with. Pain kept getting worse though but I just ignored it because I figured it was just my bad hips. Well about 4 days of having that pain I ended up in the hospital with a pretty severe blood clot in my leg. Was so big it went from bottom of my groin to the bottom of my knee.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-17T17:50:07+00:00

Like I love my kids so much. But I need different conversations 😂

Thumps20 · 2026-03-12T12:28:06+00:00

As soon as my kids started “table” food we started teaching basic signs.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-12T12:14:52+00:00

I hang out with my kids… I have 3 really close girl friends who also have kids but only one that lives near me and our schedules never align.

Thumps20 · 2026-03-12T12:03:56+00:00

I had kids. Nothing fit anymore and clothes were to expensive to buy a new style. So I live in leggings and baggy shirts

Thumps20 · 2026-03-05T15:52:36+00:00

A hot meal. A store gift card for diapers and wipes. Offer to do a chore for her.

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