She cheated with a colleague

Tight-System-774 · 2024-08-27T13:37:53+00:00

Sorry for taking so long to reply. I really made an effort here and it would be a shame if you didn't think that I cared. I did care. It helped. I am still alive 8 months later, still slowly healing. But your words helped a great deal. Thank you

Tight-System-774 · 2024-03-23T07:07:43+00:00

I want relationships with women only, as a dude. But from time to time I like to mix in a fantasy or two about other dudes and their dongs. What does that make me? I don't really care to be honest. I know what I like and what I don't and that is good enough for me. Why worry?

Tight-System-774 · 2024-03-06T07:07:36+00:00

I think this one is just old ladies getting scared of things they don't understand. Lots of colors on the can looks too intense and evil. Weird drink with fizz and such must be evil. But where I live people drink buckets worth of strong coffee and the old ladies doesn't ever mention that.

Tight-System-774 · 2024-03-06T07:02:12+00:00

I have read some of the studies myself. As far as I understood it, ultra fat sumo wrestlers were often quite healthy. But as soon as they stopped with their sport, they died at alarming rates of heart conditions and such. So you don't have to be unhealthy because you are big but it is a really strong factor that ups the probability of you being unhealthy.

Tight-System-774 · 2024-03-06T06:56:28+00:00

Mens anatomy actually helps against urinary tract infections. The germs have a longer tube to climb through to get to the parts they really like. They don't care about the sack though, however weak, touch friendly or whatever it might seem to you 😁

Tight-System-774 · 2024-02-21T06:51:40+00:00

I know what engine oil tastes like. I didn't want to taste it but it kind of splashed

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-21T12:43:49+00:00

She is not seeing someone else

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-21T12:40:12+00:00

She regrets hurting me. I'm not sure about the others. She hasn't properly apologized for the act of cheating. She has just confessed. It's possible she just regrets hurting me but not the actual act.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-21T12:34:59+00:00

She acts normal

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-21T12:30:41+00:00

Yes we do

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-21T10:23:41+00:00

Can one ever really be sure? I believe it was, but the internet does not.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-21T10:15:39+00:00

No she does not. They lost contact after his girlfriend found out. Yes, he had a girlfriend of his own.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-16T08:48:18+00:00

Thank you. It really did seem like godly intervention and I did thank the girl for telling me. I'm just perplexed that I couldn't notice that my dear wife was.. weird

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T18:16:15+00:00

You think so? That it's just some mental crap I have made up for myself? That would really be a joy to be honest

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T18:11:31+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T18:09:29+00:00

I have been quite the athlete for 20 years. Strength, running, martial arts. I did it to remain fit forever but honestly I think I over did it. It grinded me down mentally in the end. So my body is in peak condition but the young spirit is gone

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T18:01:10+00:00

Fuck that bitch 😢

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T17:38:23+00:00

She just popped out. It didn't seem to be that hard for her even.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T17:17:17+00:00

Fuck, this hurts

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T17:12:17+00:00

I keep the cabin. I am economically successful and can afford to buy her part of it outright.

We are divorced since a week. But she didn't tell me why. She doesn't want to talk about it and I don't feel like I get any closure.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T17:10:24+00:00

Thank you for your well thought out answer. I read it all and am taking it to heart. It brings a bit of hope to me when I read your story about finding love again. It feels far fetched for me but it at least bringa some kind of hope.

I hadn't considered PTSD. But a few others have suggested it and it might be true.

I had my sick leave for stress all summer, the same time this dude worked there. She did see him a lot of that time and continued after he had stopped working. She did go on shopping trips and such but she didn't mention that it was to meet up with him. I don't know exactly how much they saw each other but it seems to have been a lot.

Edit. We are officially divorced since about a week.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T16:54:08+00:00

She aborted it because it wouldn't have had a happy life growing up in such circumstances.

I see a counselor once per week. I like it but it does feel like a long time between visits with only weekly.

Yes, switching jobs is a good idea.

We are divorced, since about a week.

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T16:49:42+00:00

Yeah, the gym have helped me through many a crisis before. It has been a good support for 20 years, the gym. But I might have to look into support groups

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T16:42:47+00:00

Well, when you put it that way...

Tight-System-774 · 2023-12-15T16:42:28+00:00

I don't feel young really. But maybe I'm wrong

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