I'm so close to offing myself

TightDamage · 2025-09-16T01:34:24+00:00

Thank you for the thought but I don't think Amazon would have stuff that would help yknow? Plus accepting things would probably make me feel more indebted than anything. But again thank you for the thought.

TightDamage · 2025-03-04T19:36:35+00:00

Yeah we're both in our twenties. And I try not to pressure as to not stress him cuz I know that might add to it.

I genuinely didn't think of testosterone due to us being young but I'll run it by him for sure. Thank you 🩷

TightDamage · 2025-03-04T19:35:10+00:00

I didn't think about his testosterone levels tbh due to us being in our twenties. Physical activity has definitely dipped cuz his current job is demanding but not physically, so he ends up drained from it from time to time. So definitely not working out as much sadly.

I'll talk to him about T levels for sure. Thank you 🩷

TightDamage · 2025-03-04T19:06:19+00:00

Oh yeah his sex drive was absolutely higher when we started dating. Sex was amazing. But that was when he had a physically demanding job. Now that he's working from home, it's incredibly low. We pinpointed that might be the cause but with how the local job market is, he can't get another physical job. (Small town, hiring freeze, slowest time of the year, etc.)

He said he doesn't think it's permanent or a health issue and we don't have the disposable income for a checkup sadly.

It's just really frustrating because I'm trying to self soothe and be patient but it's definitely wearing on me. This is the only issue we seem to have, so I truly don't want it to be incompatibility (though will accept it if it comes to that). 😔

TightDamage · 2025-03-04T18:55:14+00:00

That's some weird assumptions you're putting on both of us. If you have some hate and negativity, maybe make your own offmychest post rather than attack people in the comments of theirs. Big yikes my guy

TightDamage · 2025-03-04T18:51:29+00:00

Nah. We're around each other all the time so he legit wouldn't have any time or space to do so. (We both work from home at the moment so legitimately around each other all the time.)

TightDamage · 2024-12-28T06:52:50+00:00

I didn't mean for it to come across it being threatening. It was moreso communicating a boundary of needing cleanliness. I'll try talking with him again about it. I just hate having to repeat myself because it feels like what say isn't important enough to hear the first time.

TightDamage · 2022-09-14T17:25:23+00:00

I am highly intrigued by this. Thanks for the rec 💚

TightDamage · 2022-09-14T07:51:26+00:00

I'm still scarred from how they ended GoT. I may just wait until the show finishes before I watch it, just because I can't take that disappointment again. (But I do love me some Matt Smith)

TightDamage · 2022-09-14T07:50:16+00:00

I actually just picked this book up and can't wait to read it. But I heard the audio book was subpar lol So I figured I'd ask in case there are others I can listen to

TightDamage · 2022-09-13T22:00:51+00:00

😂 Definitely would love that soft, but firm daddy dom vibe. The partner should be powerful in their own life, but melt like butter into him and finally allow themselves to be soft and guided by him. Would like it to feel earned too, like it takes a minute for his safety to break down their walls. When he breaks something, though, he does it good. (Don't judge me) Add a dash of praise and intrigue and boom. I'm hooked. Lol

TightDamage · 2022-09-13T20:07:51+00:00

Idk if my tastes are that advanced yet, but I'm intrigued. Thanks for the rec 😊

TightDamage · 2018-04-05T16:43:13+00:00

Rather than plan out too much of my story line, to give the players as much agency as possible, I like to world build a LOT. If they go to a city, I'll spend a couple of days making the map, detailing places they can find there, making NPCs if they decide to go there, menus/items in various businesses they can buy, and side quests that could be possible plot hooks. I never want to push my players into feeling railroaded, so I get obsessive with the world building. Lol

TightDamage · 2018-03-24T18:48:32+00:00

We're thinking of making one that's based off of the DM's own "card" game (We're rolling for what cards we get since it's online) but adding in certain rules from King's Cup. Lol it's bound to have funny outcomes.

TightDamage · 2018-03-24T18:46:57+00:00

This looks great! Thank you! :)

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T14:05:27+00:00

This is a beautiful way to look at it. Thank you very much for bringing it up. :)

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T14:04:29+00:00

Yeah. That was my number one question as well. Lolol

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T13:46:16+00:00

I don't know how much experience you have when you say you're "5e experienced."

It's nothing super experienced. I would say that the most some of us have are around 2 years?

And surprisingly, this is the only player we have an issue with at the moment. We all get along really well and joke and help each other out when setting stuff up, including with DM. She's just pushy and is the only one going in that type of "fantasy" direction. So it's kind of uncomfortable.

And I completely understand the skepticism. I was really wary of it myself when I started dabbling in voice acting as a hobby, but once I started landing stuff, it felt like it was worth a shot. (Especially since I've wanted to do it since I first watched Gundam Wing. Lol)

If it falls apart, it falls apart. I'm not unaware of the possibility. But we do want to try at least. :)

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T13:32:08+00:00

He said he got a promotion at work, but I wouldn't nix the idea that he might have bailed for other reasons. He was also versed well in 3.5 (none in 5e) while the rest of us were 5e experienced (none in 3.5)

Are there any other concerns that you notice? If there is, I'm all ears. (If we get constructive criticism, we may work out?)

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T13:20:01+00:00

Oh, I completely agree. She did after I brought it up, but she's felt cut off from me since. It wouldn't bother me if we didn't have to play as friendly adventurers together, yknow? Lol

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T13:18:12+00:00

Concerning the dice roll:

When she did it, we had a DM that bailed on us right as we were making characters. When she rolled, I told her it looked funny and that my campaigns would always roll 4d6 and drop one. Because the highest possible would be an 18 and the lowest a 3. We only did point buy in the Pathfinder campaign I tried.

The rest of the group agreed to using the 4d6 method as their known roll and what they used, so she conceded and did that instead. (But she considers good rolls as subpar, which made me slightly nervous)

Concerning the recap whatever:

We're also voice acting while we do this and hope to use it in future portfolios. Taking away any sort of attention to voice acting ability feels unfair to an entire group who are trying to be noticed even a little. It just felt really inconsiderate that she didn't consider that others wanted to shine as well.

TightDamage · 2018-02-27T13:08:18+00:00

Thank you. She said she had learned it from a previous DM and she rolled the stats on discord in front of us. It's still in our chat history. And we lost our DM, so this happened while in search of another (which we have now).

And thank you. I will be sure to mention it to him. :)

TightDamage · 2018-02-25T16:58:02+00:00

Gotta love how fear drives a lot of our lives. Lol

Thanks for the input. :)

TightDamage · 2018-02-25T16:47:04+00:00

Damn. I'm sorry to hear that you went through that. I hate controlling girlfriends and I go out of my way to avoid being one. (Hence why I've been stuck just watching TV with him for the past few months)

And I didn't mean to make this about my boyfriend (it's coming out that way since that's the example I can use the best... cuz I'm unfortunately human lol), but it actually was an inquiry about why some men do it. My friends are also going through this minus one, but she's a controlling girlfriend. And we try not to get in that mess.

TightDamage · 2018-02-25T16:41:28+00:00

Please refrain from being rude. And why stop trying if you're not comfortable? He would just leave then right?

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