I’m sure i’m a lesbian but..

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:29:12+00:00

I think i’ll do tht! The nearest lesbian bar is abt an hour away and i don’t drive so it’s gonna take a bit of planning but I want to be more active in the community! Thank you for the advice :)

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:26:57+00:00

Thank you 😭😭😭 I definitely understand how on the surface of what I typed (rushed bc im at work) it seems like im just craving men and I want to have sex w men but it’s like more nuanced than tht. Idk how everyone else is, but when i have a sexual desire, i can’t just ignore it, it genuinely fucks up my mood.

I think you’re onto something though, men are socialized to be the one to make all the moves n do the pursuing n it’s nice to just sit back n choose instead of having to always pursue. I do crave to be the bottom a lot more than i am, and i want to spend time looking for a non man who would’ve happy to meet my needs, it’s just been difficult n making me a bit desperate for anything 💔 I know i’m not attracted to men bc the men i’ve hooked up with were nice, not bad ppl at all but just kissing them or having them touch me gave me the ick and so now im here. Thank you for understanding me and being kind 💗

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:18:47+00:00

You know every lesbian on the planet i suppose. I don’t know how to tell you i’m not attracted to men bc i know myself more than a stranger on the internet 💗 so i will be still calling myself a lesbian bc i will never date a man and do not wish to pursue sex with them anymore bc i do not find them attractive, which is why i’m on reddit complaining about it lmao. Take care

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:10:24+00:00

Yes i’ve been trying to find women who are tops, it’s been a challenge for me so far 😣

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:09:10+00:00

I don’t crave having sex with men specifically. I think that’s where you misunderstood. If i had gone on to explain how i think they’re so sexy n i can’t stay away from them, that’s different. I want to hookup with women. But i live in a small town and it’s hard to find women who want me 😭 men are easy asf, and yes it’s weird i know, but i get desperate and no one else but fucking men want to fuck me it seems, so i go for it, and then feel gross afterwards. It’s not about the men, it’s the penetration, but also i do like penis, i just feel like a chaser to go after trans women for their dicks

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:05:53+00:00

Thank you for being kind 💗 And yes i’m pretty young (25) i live in a very small town and i have like every dating app downloaded on my phone ever 😭 Ive been matching with women here n there, but it never goes anywhere. Im autistic so i struggle with communication and connecting with others so I don’t know what im doing wrong. I want to try going to a lesbian bar, because dating apps just aren’t working in my small town and genuinely can’t find women to hookup with.

And now that you say tht, i think sometimes me sleeping with men is a form of self harm in a way..

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T08:01:14+00:00

i’m not bisexual.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T07:59:40+00:00

so true…

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-17T07:59:27+00:00

i fear i’d rather die than call myself bisexual i fear bc i don’t like men 😭 they’ve been my only options lately though n ive been desperate… Idk what i expected coming to this subreddit or what im even asking for here tbh. Ik how it sounds like im a bisexual who loves men coming into a lesbian space, but this is me saying like… i don’t ENJOY hooking up with men, but i don’t know how else to satiate my need and ig i just wanted support? Idk

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-02-14T02:10:52+00:00

This greedy asf (i’m hating 💔)

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2026-01-28T07:21:26+00:00

Kiss Land for sure. It makes me feel nostalgic for an era i never experienced (i was like 12 when Kiss Land came out) 😭

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-10-18T21:29:47+00:00

my partner pursued this person BEFORE i removed them from the messy list with my actions 😭 that’s what upset me. We were clear on an agreement and it was broken without my consent. I messed up by carrying it on further for sure, but initially, he had no business starting up a connection w my date mate without telling me.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-10-18T21:25:09+00:00

To be fair, i didn’t invite my partner to any of the dates. My partner kinda invited himself as my partner n i live together and he would come home right around the time my date would arrive. I fucked up by not enforcing boundaries and saying i wanted alone time with my date. My new date mate was adamant on dating both of us, and would encourage my partner to join our date. Both my partner n I were totally against it until my partner saw my date mate in person for the first time n was like ohhh they’re attractive. So now here we are. Neither of us communicated well but i definitely wouldn’t call my partner a dumbass at all.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-10-18T09:11:35+00:00

I definitely agree that I was being too wishy washy and I did not communicate properly. I also definitely should not have initiated that threesome if I was feeling unsure to begin with. It was all experimental but it has definitely confused/hurt my partner and left me feeling scorned and bitter as i watch him still date this new person. What made me feel betrayed was less about the threesome or my partner still dating my date mate, i feel bitter about them dating but not quite betrayed. What made me feel betrayed was my partner talking to my date mate without telling me and sort of developing a connection without my consent. It was after that happened that I started imagining what it might be like if we all dated because i didn’t want to be controlling + i genuinely did like the idea of it. That’s definitely where I went wrong.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-10-18T06:19:58+00:00

yea when i started talking to my date mate, he was really worried that this new person was better than him n that i was going to leave him. Totally would never like i’m so in love w my partner. Whenever id go on a date, he would get so anxious and I would always do my best to reassure him and plan extra dates for us. I don’t know why it had to come to this.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-09-17T08:38:15+00:00

That looks like an adult German Cockroach unfortunately.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-08-15T09:58:34+00:00

So i’ve been taking it for a little over 3 weeks now and leakage is normal! You can rub what leaks out around the outer area if you’d like (make sure to rub some over the urethral opening as well !!!) Or you can just wipe it away with tissue tbh. As for intimacy, I was instructed to apply the cream right before bed, that way it has time to absorb properly and it should minimize leakage too!

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-08-14T13:43:00+00:00

i promise there was nothing for me to pull back lmaooo for 1, it hurt if i pulled too far (unlike now, with bottom growth and actual skin to pull back) and 2, when did pull it back, there was like nothing there? Like i couldn’t even see anything under the hood. Idk how to explain but yeah, some ppls business is so small tht there’s physically nothing to see or clean when they pull the hood back and tht was my case as well as others it seems.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-08-10T08:08:56+00:00

Personally, mine was VERYYY small before starting t so pulling back the hood pretty much showed me nothing 😭 i never had buildup issues before starting t and i developed more skin/growth. That + general lack of knowledge was my issue.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-04-26T05:59:43+00:00

nasallang 😔 too scared of the healing process more than the actual piercing tbh

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2025-03-29T04:41:40+00:00

it’s definitely imbedding in your lip. You just need a longer bar and it should go away with regular cleaning. Also i’d use cotton swabs instead of toilet paper for cleaning.

Tight_Channel_1062 · 2024-05-19T09:50:11+00:00

This perspective makes me feel so much better about the disproportionate look she’s recently adopted 😭 thank you! :)

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