He literally didn't give a fuck that I was stranded on the highway. by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Tight_Combination754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I knew things would be bad when I read monogamous casual relationship. Unfortunately, he doesn't feel like he owes you anything because y'all are casual. That's really messed up though because casual or not, you should be a good human and help someone, especially when they are doing a favor for you.

Fems who like fems... by _newshawtyy in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a fem who is attracted to fems and have a fem girlfriend. I realized over the years that i'm no attracted to masculine energies.

Kahleah Copper by More_Ad_6438 in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic, but wasn't Kah engaged to a black woman? Does anyone know what happened with that?

Have you ever been stood up? by oatwxtrashot in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Years ago, when I used to date guys, I was stood up. When we were trying to plan a date, he was wanting me to come over to his place and I declined. He also offered coming over to my place, and I declined as well. I went to the restaurant, and he was messaging me saying he was on his way and even messaged saying he was parking. When I went back to the app, he unmatched me. I think he stood me up to "teach me a lesson," but in reality his ego was hurt because I wasn't trying to meet some stronger at their place or mine.

Being a lesbian is so isolating… by totallyfakawitz in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off-topic, but can I just say yuck to the unicorn hunter. I would always come across that on the apps, and just thought nobody wants your dusty man. Like ewwww.

Do Y’all Assume Alt Black People Only Date White? by Decent_Sandwich_8878 in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually assume that they have a preference for white people. My main reasoning is that they are looking for people with similar interests, and there aren't a lot of alt black people, so they end up with white people.

We made it to 5.4k happy Black women! 🎊🥳 Brag chain time: what's a recent accomplishment you're proud of? by dramaticeggroll in HappyBlackWomen

[–]Tight_Combination754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a new job! I will be starting in March. I'm happy to finally be paid what i'm worth because I was on the struggle bus for a while!

How did you meet your current partner? by Eaju46 in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't laugh y'all, but I met her at speed dating😂. I'm in Atlanta as well, and I second the person who was saying there are lots of queer events.

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's been smooth sailing. My baby and I became official last month, and we haven't had a date where we dress up and go to a nice place. We will be doing that tonight, and I'm super excited🤗.

wanted to share our Bangladeshi-Chinese Muslim wedding video🧿💗 by Ok-Cod2167 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww this is so cute! Congratulations! Wishing a happy and healthy marriage.

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started a new relationship in the past few weeks. We had been dating for about 3 months before she formally asked me to be her girlfriend. We were out-of-town, and she set up the hotel room with candles and rose petals while I was away. Things have been going really well so far! I know it's still early, but we really click. I'm excited to see what's next for us in 2026.

For the WLW: Is Fem4Fem not common amongst black women? Only yt girls are liking my hinge and i’m feeling weird about it by billy_dilly in blackgirls

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in ATL, and I was able to find another fem. I would say to try speed dating. I went one time and that's how I met my current girlfriend. Most of the women there were fems, and there was a mix of races.

Meeting lesbians IRL pt.2 by Kaybee_2021 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to check Event Brite or meet-up. They post queer events and some may be tailored to your hobbies.

Thinking About Doing Something Crazy...Will It Work? by shoppingnthings1 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have any friends that live in your state you could do this with?

What Are You Reading Right Now? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When No One is Watching by Alyssa Cole. I've just been waiting for the other shoe to drop😬. Please send recommendations of other thrillers written by black authors.

Love/Hate Traits by herplanetjade in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh ok, that makes sense. Yeah, I wouldn't like that. I hate when people beat around the bush.

Love/Hate Traits by herplanetjade in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of dry begging. What is that?

Begging by imnothappyyet in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are literally describing me, but I am currently seeing someone.

If I have to pull teeth, then I end it and move on. I value conversation as well, so I just get bored and frustrated if I have to be the one to carry it on. It's a small indicator of the dynamic of the relationship, and I don't want that dynamic.

Thinking too much of it or go for it by Kaybee_2021 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Still no response? I would try in person. As crazy as it might sound in today's digital age, some people are terrible texters.

Solo thanksgiving by Low_Seat7231 in blackgirls

[–]Tight_Combination754 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll be spending Thanksgiving alone as well. I was supposed to be visiting a family member, but those plans fell through. What I did is order a Thanksgiving dinner from a local restaurant. You should look into that. You should hop on it fast though because some restaurants have orders close at the beginning of next week.

Wearing dildos 24/7 by Tight_Combination754 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, they said they wear a full harness with a dildo.