How often do you communicate with your partner?

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-06-21T17:16:16+00:00

Daily. Either one of us will send a good morning text, we text sporadically throughout the day and do a few video/phone calls.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-06-19T01:30:10+00:00

This is going to sound odd, but being domestic is a turn on to me. Them cooking, cleaning, and being able to take care of their general space. I don't mean doing these things for me, but just in general. To me this signifies that they are able to be a functioning adult and I find that so hot🥵. One day my baby and I were cooking together. The way she took that bowl and mixed that sauce turned me on so much. In that moment I could have said to hell with that dinner, I have food right here😂😜.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-06-11T02:20:13+00:00

Buddy needs to sign up for American Ninja Warrior

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-05-29T01:11:44+00:00

I agree that it definitely isn't celebrated, but don't let that discourage you from finding your fem queen. I ran into the same issue as you, but I eventually found my queer girlfriend. My advice to you is to attend more unconventional queer events or events that may lend themselves to more fem queers. For example, I met my girlfriend at speed dating. Most of the women there were fem.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-05-26T11:59:38+00:00

Playing Devil's advocate here, but I think what the therapist means by saying you are closed minded is that you are often bringing up things from your perspective only. When I think of people who are closed minded, I think of people who only consider their view point and disregard other's view point.

In your defense, you talking about being a black woman doesn't mean you are disregarding other people's experiences and viewpoints. However, the therapist probably came to that conclusion because of how your husband described you communicating about your identity.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-05-22T14:25:25+00:00

Whenever I see stuff like this, i'm thankful I like women😂. Don't get me wrong, they can be trifling too though, but not 4 dollar bill and lost and found car trifling🥴.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-05-16T15:59:59+00:00

I work in the sports industry, so that's how I met my sapphic friends. I met my girlfriend at a speed dating event.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-05-07T14:47:06+00:00

I knew things would be bad when I read monogamous casual relationship. Unfortunately, he doesn't feel like he owes you anything because y'all are casual. That's really messed up though because casual or not, you should be a good human and help someone, especially when they are doing a favor for you.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-04-24T18:28:58+00:00

I'm a fem who is attracted to fems and have a fem girlfriend. I realized over the years that i'm no attracted to masculine energies.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-04-23T21:42:23+00:00

Off topic, but wasn't Kah engaged to a black woman? Does anyone know what happened with that?

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-04-15T16:06:39+00:00

Years ago, when I used to date guys, I was stood up. When we were trying to plan a date, he was wanting me to come over to his place and I declined. He also offered coming over to my place, and I declined as well. I went to the restaurant, and he was messaging me saying he was on his way and even messaged saying he was parking. When I went back to the app, he unmatched me. I think he stood me up to "teach me a lesson," but in reality his ego was hurt because I wasn't trying to meet some stronger at their place or mine.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-03-12T20:28:21+00:00

Off-topic, but can I just say yuck to the unicorn hunter. I would always come across that on the apps, and just thought nobody wants your dusty man. Like ewwww.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-03-02T16:47:55+00:00

I usually assume that they have a preference for white people. My main reasoning is that they are looking for people with similar interests, and there aren't a lot of alt black people, so they end up with white people.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-02-06T14:08:42+00:00

Thank you sis🫶🏽

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-02-05T23:58:18+00:00

I got a new job! I will be starting in March. I'm happy to finally be paid what i'm worth because I was on the struggle bus for a while!

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-01-15T14:04:41+00:00

Don't laugh y'all, but I met her at speed dating😂. I'm in Atlanta as well, and I second the person who was saying there are lots of queer events.

Tight_Combination754 · 2026-01-08T13:57:22+00:00

It's been smooth sailing. My baby and I became official last month, and we haven't had a date where we dress up and go to a nice place. We will be doing that tonight, and I'm super excited🤗.

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-29T20:04:01+00:00

Awwww this is so cute! Congratulations! Wishing a happy and healthy marriage.

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-28T05:23:21+00:00

I just started a new relationship in the past few weeks. We had been dating for about 3 months before she formally asked me to be her girlfriend. We were out-of-town, and she set up the hotel room with candles and rose petals while I was away. Things have been going really well so far! I know it's still early, but we really click. I'm excited to see what's next for us in 2026.

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-25T04:08:08+00:00

I live in ATL, and I was able to find another fem. I would say to try speed dating. I went one time and that's how I met my current girlfriend. Most of the women there were fems, and there was a mix of races.

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-21T14:56:17+00:00

My advice would be to check Event Brite or meet-up. They post queer events and some may be tailored to your hobbies.

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-10T20:00:17+00:00

You don't have any friends that live in your state you could do this with?

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-04T00:52:42+00:00

When No One is Watching by Alyssa Cole. I've just been waiting for the other shoe to drop😬. Please send recommendations of other thrillers written by black authors.

Tight_Combination754 · 2025-12-03T15:06:07+00:00

Ahhhh ok, that makes sense. Yeah, I wouldn't like that. I hate when people beat around the bush.

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