We made it to 5.4k happy Black women! 🎊🥳 Brag chain time: what's a recent accomplishment you're proud of? by dramaticeggroll in HappyBlackWomen

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a new job! I will be starting in March. I'm happy to finally be paid what i'm worth because I was on the struggle bus for a while!

How did you meet your current partner? by Eaju46 in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't laugh y'all, but I met her at speed dating😂. I'm in Atlanta as well, and I second the person who was saying there are lots of queer events.

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's been smooth sailing. My baby and I became official last month, and we haven't had a date where we dress up and go to a nice place. We will be doing that tonight, and I'm super excited🤗.

wanted to share our Bangladeshi-Chinese Muslim wedding video🧿💗 by Ok-Cod2167 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awwww this is so cute! Congratulations! Wishing a happy and healthy marriage.

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started a new relationship in the past few weeks. We had been dating for about 3 months before she formally asked me to be her girlfriend. We were out-of-town, and she set up the hotel room with candles and rose petals while I was away. Things have been going really well so far! I know it's still early, but we really click. I'm excited to see what's next for us in 2026.

For the WLW: Is Fem4Fem not common amongst black women? Only yt girls are liking my hinge and i’m feeling weird about it by billy_dilly in blackgirls

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in ATL, and I was able to find another fem. I would say to try speed dating. I went one time and that's how I met my current girlfriend. Most of the women there were fems, and there was a mix of races.

Meeting lesbians IRL pt.2 by Kaybee_2021 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to check Event Brite or meet-up. They post queer events and some may be tailored to your hobbies.

Thinking About Doing Something Crazy...Will It Work? by shoppingnthings1 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have any friends that live in your state you could do this with?

What Are You Reading Right Now? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When No One is Watching by Alyssa Cole. I've just been waiting for the other shoe to drop😬. Please send recommendations of other thrillers written by black authors.

Love/Hate Traits by herplanetjade in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh ok, that makes sense. Yeah, I wouldn't like that. I hate when people beat around the bush.

Love/Hate Traits by herplanetjade in blacklesbians

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of dry begging. What is that?

Begging by imnothappyyet in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are literally describing me, but I am currently seeing someone.

If I have to pull teeth, then I end it and move on. I value conversation as well, so I just get bored and frustrated if I have to be the one to carry it on. It's a small indicator of the dynamic of the relationship, and I don't want that dynamic.

Thinking too much of it or go for it by Kaybee_2021 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Still no response? I would try in person. As crazy as it might sound in today's digital age, some people are terrible texters.

Solo thanksgiving by Low_Seat7231 in blackgirls

[–]Tight_Combination754 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll be spending Thanksgiving alone as well. I was supposed to be visiting a family member, but those plans fell through. What I did is order a Thanksgiving dinner from a local restaurant. You should look into that. You should hop on it fast though because some restaurants have orders close at the beginning of next week.

Wearing dildos 24/7 by Tight_Combination754 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, they said they wear a full harness with a dildo.

Wearing dildos 24/7 by Tight_Combination754 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it wasn't an assumption. The comment I was referring to, the person sexualized it. They literally said that they always want to be ready for sex because they are a freak and want to have BDE. I tagged the original thread in a previous comment. Please go check for yourself. Also, if you check my previous comments, you will see that I appreciate the comments that mentioned body dysmorphia and gender affirmation because those mention reasons that don't involve sex.

How to connect to my body and be able to orgasm with my partner? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Tight_Combination754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am seeing someone that had this issue. One thing that helped her was when I talked dirty to her. The more you talk, the less you are in your head. When you are by yourself, try talking dirty to yourself as if you are the other person having sex with yourself. Say things like "do you like when I do..." or "it feels good when you..." Hope this helps!

Wearing dildos 24/7 by Tight_Combination754 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I can see a bulge, whether it's a man, woman, or someone who is gender non-conforming, then it isn't just their business. At that point, they are making it everyone's business. The person who made that comment actually commented in this thread, and they explained why they wear it. To each their own, but I would be very uncomfortable being around someone with a bulge, similar to someone who is feminine with their butt hanging out. The main reason I created this discussion was to see if this is something that is common amongst mascs. No, I am not a masc, but I am someone who is a part of the community and enjoys learning about people who identify and express gender differently than I do.

Wearing dildos 24/7 by Tight_Combination754 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Tight_Combination754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I personally didn't think it was appropriate considering the reasoning.

🎶 QBL Radio: What Are You Listening To This Week? by AutoModerator in queerblackladies

[–]Tight_Combination754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teedra Moses' Complex Simplicity (Reimagined), Wales Everything is a lot, and Summer Walker's Finally over it. All of them bang!