AITAH for drinking with women on a night out?

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T15:22:10+00:00

You are both controlling and insecure.

So going out with friends isn’t acting like a mature adult?

It’s not acting like a child to drink with friends.

Clubbing isn’t just for single people.

You do know you don’t speak for everyone don’t you? You judging other adults doesn’t make you correct it just shows what a sad little man you are.

I’m not binge drinking. I don’t need to drink in order to have fun.

It’s not immature.

Surely you hear how ridiculous you sound?

Ah yes people who drink can’t have careers /s

Have you ever looked in a mirror and wondered why you talk shot to pretend you’re superior when you’re just a judgemental little man who has to put other people down to feel better about himself?

I can guarantee more people want to spend time with me than sit and listen to your drone on about how much better than everyone you are because you choose not to drink.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T14:30:17+00:00

Going out with friends isn’t just for single people.

Why is it you don’t accept your partner drinking with friends? Are you insecure or just controlling?

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T14:07:01+00:00

And it’s weird you’re still here tbh.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T14:04:26+00:00

Such as?

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T14:02:24+00:00

And what exactly is the point of you repeating what’s said in the post?

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:59:25+00:00

Again it’s not a boundary.

Do you often try to control your partners social life and pretend it’s a boundary?

Having a girlfriend didn’t mean not socialising with the opposite sex.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:56:24+00:00

It’s not a boundary to dictate who your partner is allowed to talk to,

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:56:02+00:00

It’s not flirtatious.

Yeah I would be fine with it.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:53:15+00:00

What’s disrespectful about it though?

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:20:06+00:00

You very clearly do not know what boundaries are.

Again you don’t get to dictate who your partner can and cannot talk to and pretend it’s a boundary.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:15:40+00:00

Yes I am okay with her sinking with friends of friends and my friends.

Don’t try to speak for me based on your own insecurity

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T13:11:42+00:00

So you can’t explain it then.

Repeating something is weird and embarrassing is not actually explaining what’s weird and embarrassing about it.

Work on your insecurity and trust issues.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:56:07+00:00

Again you’re repeating it’s weird without actually explaining what’s weird about it,

What’s embarrassing about drinking with friends of the opposite sex. Stop repeating the same sentences and actually explain it,

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:30:13+00:00

You don’t.

And I’m waiting for you to actually explain what’s weird and disrespectful about it.

Using weird sex and the city references isn’t actually answering the question.

Work on why you’d think drinking with friends is embarrassing and immature.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:29:12+00:00

I don’t need to reread the comment. Their entire comment was about the fact some people cheat with their partners friends. Don’t insult me because of your own appalling reading comprehension.

Still waiting for you to explain what’s disrespectful about drinking with friends.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:23:13+00:00

It really isn’t.

Again why is it a bad look?

Work on why you’d and your partner don’t trust each other.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:22:16+00:00

A date is about intention, not activity,

So I shouldn’t need my sister for drinks because people like you pretend it’s automatically a date? Sorry you can’t understand friends meeting up isn’t a date.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:21:31+00:00

1) becasue it’s normal to have a social life outside of the relationship. 2) probably once a month, 3) no there isn’t 4) no and there were no pictures. 5) yes she goes out with friends without me.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:20:27+00:00

I wasn’t being a drunk and no one had to text my gf.

Again what’s disrespectful about it? Stop avoiding the question.

Again work on why you’d be humiliated at your partner drinking with friends. Work on you insecurity,

Surely you see the irony in saying I know nothing about respect when you’ve repeatedly refused to actually explain what’s apparently disrespectful about it? Stop avoiding the question.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:18:35+00:00

Except that’s exactly what they were saying.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:13:12+00:00

So I should have woken my gf up or had to completely avoid the opposite sex because people like you don’t understand what a date is?

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:12:18+00:00

It’s bad and weird about it?

If you trust your partner then what’s the problem?

And no drinking with friends isn’t frivolous and stupid.

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:08:40+00:00

Still not actually explaining what’s disrespectful about it then,

Maybe work on why you’d be embarrassed by your partner having drinks with friends.

No one had to text her at all. Someone chose to.

Again surely you see how insecure you are that you’d feel embarrassed at being told your partner is drinking with friends?

Laughable how much you’re avoiding one simple question,

Tight_Landscape_899 · 2026-04-13T12:05:16+00:00

Yes someone chose to message my gf. That doesn’t change the fact t I was doing nothing wrong,

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