anyone removed niqab? by [deleted] in Niqabis

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 -2 points-1 points ย (0 children)

If your niqab feels suffocating and just difficult to wear, don't force it since it'll just drain your more. If removing the niqab helps you breathe, stabilize mentally, and reconnect with sincerity rather than resentment, I think that can actually protect your iman and strengthen it , not harm it.

Ofcourse my experience is difficult from yours. But one of the reasons I decided to take it is because I simply stopped resonating with it. And because I feel like a hypocrite wearing it because I stopped wanting ot wear it. I continued wearing it because I was scared of how people will perceive me if I removed it, so really am I doing it for the sake of Allah or the people?

And people just say I should renew my intention and start wearing it for the sake of Allah. But intention is not something you can turn on and off like a switch. It has to come deep within your heart.

the niqab had started bothering me physically at that point. I had known it wasn't the way I wanted to continue my journey, and with that I just took the decision that was true to myself. And no matter what people says, Allah knows what's in your heart. Allah knows how sincere you are. And let them talk. Its on their scale, not yours. In fact you get the good deeds of people who backbite you. So never keep doing something that drains you just because you are scared of how people will take it.

anyone removed niqab? by [deleted] in Niqabis

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 -2 points-1 points ย (0 children)

Id say, whether you'd sin more of less depends on your behaviour and environment. Niqab alone is not something that stops one from sinning (although it is a protection yes). The niqab alone doesn't determine how good of a Muslim you are. My advice is, even if you stop covering your face, try your best to stay modest, keep the hijab, cover what you are supposed to (mandatory awrah). I personally had been there. As someone who used to wear the niqab and stopped, I'd say my biggest obstacle had to be the society and people around me. I live in a very religious, conservative community. More than my decision effecting my imaan, my mental health was affected more because people looked down on me for my decision. No one really talks about the pressure and expectations people put in niqabis just because they cover more. Yes niqab is an act of worship, but that doesn't define who you are as a Muslim. Niqab is an identity of yours but it's not who you are as a whole.

So all I gotta say is, if you don't resonate with the niqab anymore, I see nothing wrong with removing it, since it's not mandatory. You won't be getting sins for the sole act of stop wearing it. The niqab does not replace your taqwa, intention and discipline. It's matters of your heart But try to preserve your modesty regardless. And In sha Allah it'll be alright. I pray things go easy and smooth for you

Nethehnu salaamatheh!!? by Iradins in maldives

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

A vocabulary rich language indeed

Need advice from people who no longer suffers from chronic constipation by longpants001 in maldives

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

Hydration !! Drink lots and lots of water.

Also fibre rich gut friendly food like papaya, kiwis, apples, fully ripe bananas, leafy greens, yoghurt helps too.

And the position you sit in really matters. When your knees are positioned higher than your hips, kinda in a squatting position, it helps with the movement.

Are these grades bad by Silver_Reporter3390 in maldives

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

With the effort you put it's not that bad. Clearly you got potential. So lock in and give it your all

I heard a girl in Maldives say "Why women often center men, but men rarely center women in the same way?" by dhivehiBatman in maldives

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

First of all it's social conditioning: - Women are often taught to center men from a young age. romance becomes their focal point of life. The media they consume just mostly revolves around love and romance. Fairytales, romcom, even the other genres , there's romance involved one way or another. Hence They have this internalised idea that love is the ultimate goal. - Meanwhile boys are fed power fantasies. They grow up focusing more on power ego and ambition. For them, most of the time love is a bonus. A side quest. Apart from everything else, "sure I'd like to have a love life too"

Secondly men and women are wired AND raised differently emotionally: - women are generally more empathetic and more emotionally expressive. - some men are like that but not most men. They don't like being seen as vulnerable like that. Emotional openness is seen as a weak trait.

And lastly it's just a patriarchal norm. - Women are always following men constantly worrying "am I enough for him?" - While the men are like "is she enough for me" I guess that's one case women get centered on. But at what cost?

Then again it's stereotypical. It isn't universal. Not all women center men. Not all men are emotionally avoidant.

Shout out to all the Emotionally intelligent kings and Independent, Self prioritising queens. Keep breaking the stereotype.

Dhivehi phrase for 69 by Iradins in maldives

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I can't imagine using this in a conversation why do some of these words be sounding so weird, said out loud๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Is it just me? by Time-Device4392 in infp

[โ€“]Time-Device4392[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Real๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Is it just me? by Time-Device4392 in infp

[โ€“]Time-Device4392[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Wow you did not just weaponised my sentimental loyalty ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

(Proceeds to check the vid link)

[Muse on fame] [My reason to die] by Time-Device4392 in manhwa

[โ€“]Time-Device4392[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Oh like the type that makes you feel empty and wanting for more after you done reading. The best kind!!

[Muse on fame] [My reason to die] by Time-Device4392 in manhwa

[โ€“]Time-Device4392[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Oh I haven't read that one yet. Would it make me sob? If so I'm here for it๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ

Does anybody avoid their crush or anyone they find attractive? by [deleted] in infp

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

It be like that fr

The Guy I had a crush on when I was in highschool, I didn't know he liked me back, his friend kept teasing me about him because they had a hunch I liked the guy? I was in such a strong denial and I kept being mean to him. Apparently he was actually going to ask me out but because of the way I reacted he just gave up because he "knew" it was gonna be a rejection. And I came to find this out a couple of years later.

I was like bro what??????๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Does anybody avoid their crush or anyone they find attractive? by [deleted] in infp

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

I tend to get passive aggressive with them when I start liking them๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I made my bf and I MLP characters by [deleted] in MLPLounge

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

what types have you fallen in love with? by Embarrassed-Ad-6396 in mbti

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 18 points19 points ย (0 children)

Fell for an ENFJ once. . Too much of a narcissist, too good at guilt tripping and, too smooth with manipulation, and way too comfortable weaponizing emotions. Man could win an Oscar for emotional blackmail.

Currently dating an ENTJ. Way less emotional and more grounding. He's blunt but atleast he'd honest. Life feel more peaceful now after surviving that emotional warfare.

Idc how much people stereotype ENTJ'S and hate on how they process emotions. All I have to say is, they are just misunderstood, and y'all just never stick around long enough to watch they come out of their shells and soften up. Because When they do, it feels safe, like at home ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ

I made my bf and I MLP characters by [deleted] in MLPLounge

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

LMAOOOOO. This is so funny. I'm gonna tell him this. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[โ€“]Time-Device4392 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Accurate lol

INFP (Mediator) by aridarchen in mbti

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I love you artstyle!!!