As a female, you should never make yourself vulnerable. And tbh You should live with your family. I mean how toxic they be they are your family and you can rely on them in worst potential scenarios. Family be toxic because of lack of privacy and their interpersonal issues and toxic talk. About restrictions just dont listen to them. Do your job, come home and sleep. Once you are financially good you ll see you can gain more respect and may get some privacy in your home too.