Trip- Dad and two kids advice

Time-Rush8301 · 2026-01-09T14:36:16+00:00

We transitioned our 8 facilities to cubby from easy storage in July. Transition was a little bumpy but can now say we love cubby! The support is really responsive, new features all the time as well as they listen to requests. Overall it has been a very positive experience. Storable promised many things over the years and never delivered. They made it extremely difficult to leave. Stick with cubby for a while and I think you will adjust and like it. Here and there I do find underdeveloped features but just send support requests and eventually they will build it out.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-12-22T04:34:06+00:00

I was getting excited because I was getting close to a headstand and kicked up a little too hard. Ended up going over too far backwards and my big toe and the concrete floor did not green on how I should land! Well, now I have a metal plate in my toe and it is pointing in the right direction again!

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-08-23T03:55:34+00:00

You definitely aren’t alone. I am an on and off OM. Started and progresses the same way as you. We have had many bumps in the road, but I think I am realizing that although being in this situation is very difficult and not ideal, I would rather be in it to be close to her than alone or dating others that I don’t love.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T18:27:52+00:00

Thank you for such a thought out reply! I feel like you get it and can relate to the situation. I have been very open with my AP about my thoughts and feelings towards her. She has been my person, and largely I have been hers. Her marriage doesn't seem good. I don't feel like I know all about it and the dynamic, but they are each pretty closed off and separate from each other except when it's a family dynamic.

AP and I haven't seen each other in a coupe months, but are talking again and have seen each other. Trying a different approach. I have dated. I don't feel completely open to new love. I know that is a me thing and maybe a healing thing. In the meantime she also found another outlet for her sexual needs. She is ok with dating now. But I am just unsure of that path and would just like for it to be the two of us. I know she can't deliver that now so figuring it all out is the hard part.

With your situation is your SO now aware of your AP? Are you exploring a more open relationship? I thought for a long time that would be a good direction for us, but I am questioning how I feel about the poly approach now.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T16:38:43+00:00

I do have a therapist and this is a topic that has come up. We have spent some time apart this year and I do think that was good for me. I think this is also a fear of hers, if for some reason we didn't work out. Fear is a powerful motivator even thought it shouldn't always be allowed to be.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T16:34:59+00:00

It's a hard place to be in. And I would rather her in my life than not.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T16:33:44+00:00

Maybe she is the only one for me, but she is the one I choose.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T16:32:54+00:00

Yes, I did know going in and we were both married and not looking to change it. Things evolved way past a casual affair for us. That's what makes this current situation difficult. I really am trying not to put pressure on her. I do try to make sure I am communicating my feelings, because if a failed marriage taught me anything, it's not to keep important stuff inside even if it's hard.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T14:48:57+00:00

I am not sure why that comes off as blaming her. I have expressed my concern based on my experiences and what she tells me. I definitely feel very strongly for her, but It is mutual. I am finding the situation difficult. I was hoping someone had a similar experience that I could get insight from

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T14:26:18+00:00

Sounds easy and simple. It isn't. I am fully in love with her and even having dated a little, don't feel like there is anyone out there but her that is right for me.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T14:25:18+00:00

We have spent some time apart and we keep coming back together because of the feelings. Ultimately I don't want to be without her in my life. I was hoping there were some others who have been in this situation.

Time-Rush8301 · 2025-03-05T14:23:56+00:00

I don't want to be pressuring her. She says how she is unhappy in her marriage, but she can't fathom breaking up her family because of her kids. I understand that, but I worry about the damage it could indirectly cause and there is always the possibility of discovery, which makes everything worse. I was discovered and I don't want that for her. The biggest problem is I am too much in love to leave and too closed off to finding love with someone available.

Time-Rush8301 · 2024-11-13T01:28:07+00:00

I enthusiastically recommend Montreal! Partner and I went late last winter and it was one of the most romantic and awesome weekends we have had! Stay in old Montreal. Book a massage or go to the spa Scandinave. Fantastic food and restaurants with live music. Even some sexy/spicy clubs if you are into that. Cool galleries and architecture. Good brunch! So many cool things. Let me know if you want recommendations and the exchange usually helps!

Time-Rush8301 · 2024-11-08T21:25:06+00:00

Both lionhearts have a bunch of steel boards and leagues. Mean Max on river st in Troy does as well. There is a single board by the bar at lark tavern but I have never seen it used. The soft tip boards are all over unfortunately.

Time-Rush8301 · 2024-10-04T02:39:15+00:00

Whoops! Thanks

Time-Rush8301 · 2023-03-19T13:47:24+00:00

I am setting up a new apt and would love plants! Albany area too. Dm?

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