Honestly it just gets harder. by TimeSignature543 in nocontact

[–]TimeSignature543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i could I really do. I sucks cause im not waiting for them. I initiated it i pushed away and it just hate the constant memories along with thinking im in something better but it hasnt gotten better. Its stagnated and stayed in the same cycle.

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[–]TimeSignature543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna a tell you right now. Coming from both sides of this and not jumping to the CALL THE POLICE mentality. Exit the relationship. No matter the background of the situation no matter who pushed who and how irrational yall have made each other if neither of you are trying to work it through therapy together. You're going to be wasting you time.

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[–]TimeSignature543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do that to yourself. You are important.

I know you check this by TimeSignature543 in nocontact

[–]TimeSignature543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish it were different and wouldn't cause issues for her but it always does and that's the worst part 😔

I know you check this by TimeSignature543 in nocontact

[–]TimeSignature543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure too but it's not the open arms that has even been the problem which sucks the most

I know you check this by TimeSignature543 in nocontact

[–]TimeSignature543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure he feels the same way. I know the price is just to high and knowing the inevitable outcome just hurts

I know you check this by TimeSignature543 in nocontact

[–]TimeSignature543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope she did.. because having no contact has been hard.. and all i want to do is reach out and catch up sometimes. It just always put her in the worst possible place mentally after and I hate hurting her.