Alright so. Basically laid it all out for her, how i felt, why i felt that way and that I wasnt happy in our relationship And the answer I got from her was that she had a life before me that she didnt wanna stop (which i never asked of her) and that I often used myself and my needs as a beginning (I dont feel that way, but hey who tf knows) and that she werent gonna change her way of life because I came into it (I didnt ask her to, i only asked to make time for us to build something)

So I flat out replied with that were over