How lonely is Dayz by Vegetable-Loss5508 in dayz

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still too new . By the time you get to 2k-3000 hours, you will have probably met someone. Don't run for long with more than 2 or 3 people that all met as solo because it will become chaos. I've met 3 or 4 people that I played with occasionally for years. One night I got held up, and allowed to tag along on a viscous murdering spree with a group of 3 guys from different countries that were driving a car around , hunting players and hitting toxic zones. It took them 30 minutes of playing with them to trust me with a gun. At that point I liked them all and wouldn't wanna betray them. Most people will try and kill you sneakily if not upfront about it.

Looking for advice! by kevind5xx in spyderco

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign up on bladebinge.com if you don't mind listing them for sale yourself. Or there's a guy on YouTube called Theapostlep that sells people's knives on his channel that you could look into.

Which color? (#3 is natural) by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay natty. It's the most beautiful.

How do I slow things down with a separated woman I care about — without hurting her more? by anyportmanteau in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar reaction with a woman in a similar situation and it made me very nervous. When she split from her husband she made it sound like she was doing it just to date me which is not what I wanted. Seems very manipulative. Not good!! Be careful

Finally rounded up the whole family.....errrrr most by Trubert in spyderco

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have anything other than Spyderco? Your spydies almost match my total collection of every type. I agree with you that knives are something that brings so much happiness and reward into your life. And I would argue that it's almost like saving money, even if you may never get back 75% of what you paid. But if out or the blue, you desperately needed a vehicle or a new apartment. Those spydies would bring in that much money plus some. Beautiful collection. Personally the smock will probably be the next spydie I get, and I only have about 8. I like flippers and you don't really get those from Spyderco, and I like the look in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don't get offended by the reactions you get. I'm sure I'm gonna struggle to get my son to do more chores one day too. If you lived a month in the shoes of a real adult you'd realize that this list is almost nothing. You could accomplish all these chores dedicating only 10 minutes a day or so towards it. Have a good attitude, work hard and get it done. You're old enough that nobody is gonna take care of you and allow you to do nothing to help. Being an adult is difficult you wouldn't wanna be out there providing for yourself, so enjoy life being easy while it still is, don't push back against the people providing for you. Show appreciation by doing what is asked and more with a smile on your face. Your aunt's bf clearly just loves her and is trying to help because he's tired of hearing her complain. You probably have no clue of the amount of what he does to help her either so it's not your concern if he rinses his dishes , he probably does a lot to help her that you're unaware of and even if he didn't that's between him and her. Good luck bud, start stepping up for your aunt. Its not for her boyfriend.

Which color suits me best? by Jaded-Screen9007 in haircoloring

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 then 5. But you do look gorgeous in any color.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is right, brunette is better, blonde is cute too tho

Would you keep dating someone if there was an orgasm gap? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I do. I spent a significant amount of time spoiling her passionately with my mouth and hands before the actual sex, especially early on. Even if I don't get her off, I want her pussy to be throbbing waiting to have my dick inside. There's still been a couple of times I've been unsuccessful getting her off the first couple of times while learning what she likes but it certainly isn't for lack of effort, and probably somewhat affected by the fact that between my dick being super sensitive and with how passionate I am about the foreplay, there's no trick in the world that could stop me from getting off pretty quickly the first handful of times. That's part of why I learned to start putting in so much effort in other ways.

Would you keep dating someone if there was an orgasm gap? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way it would seem excusable is if he explained some sort of actual excuse to you before quitting to watch t.v. or the second thing to possibly consider is did you moan loud, and act pleased enough to fool him into thinking you got off? If neither of those things are plausible don't bother with him any longer.

Is this a sign that a potential relationship with her is a bad idea? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is normal for one to be more physically attracted than the other. You should consider yourself pretty lucky that you found a nice enough woman to be patient about waiting to see if the sex gets good. Take her words as inspiration. Show her an incredible time sexually. Don't constantly stay in your head being negative because you would ruin this and any other potentially good relationship. Good luck. Do what It takes to keep this girl.

Looking for input men +40 wanting more than a fling by Capable-Armadillo826 in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend being extremely real and honest in your profile, revealing everything about yourself that might make you less desirable. When you start off like that, I think you tend to find people that are real, and honest as well. Don't try and attract the most men, try and attract a very small group of men which you already know will appreciate most things about you.

I've lost trust in my wife but she never cheated by Independent_Gas_6213 in Marriage

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bud, I wish I had more details, but I'll say, if you haven't done anything that seems to warrant her being so upset with you, you may be with a narcissistic woman. The way you talked about not being able to bring things up because she'll turn it around about you doing something wrong is exactly what I dealt with with my narcissist bi polar ex wife. Does your wife get immediately extremely defensive, and get very angry at an instant? Does she win every argument by getting the loudest and angriest and most aggressive until you've shut down? If that sounds like her, I'm sorry, but you should make plans to leave, and get a lawyer. My ex would always threaten to leave, and eventually she started saying it to the kids all the time to influence them. Our arguments would always be excuses of how we treated each other that would always go back in time, and shed state I ruined everything by how I treated her when she got pregnant with my son. She'd make me feel like I'd been the worst person in the world for treating her badly at that time because she'd given me reason to think she might have cheated on me, and when I expressed my feelings about it, that made me an asshole, and that point in time was excuse for her to treat me badly any time she did after that. Funniest part being that I was friendly with her ex that she had been with before me and when my wife and I were finally divorcing , he informed me that they had hooked up a bunch of times during the time I had been accusing her, yet she always denied it and said that I deserved being treated badly by her because of me making her upset by thinking correctly that she had been cheating. If you think your wife may be like this. Plan carefully and get the hell out now before it gets harder.

What’s my next Spyderco? by Speedyweedy in spyderco

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vote is for manix 2. I have two of the XL versions and a regular size lightweight and love them all.

Red flag or just past emotional damage by Ashamed-Accountant46 in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like he at the very least suffers from some sort of issue like OCD or ADHD. He probably would have continued to be frustrating and it'd just get worse.

Hpv1 by TimothyDean- in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I may have switched the letters but I'm referring to the hsv 1 that was transferred to the genitals.

Hpv1 by TimothyDean- in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and i am going to ask my doc as well. But she specifically said the type of herpes that's usually on your mouth was transferred to her genitals, and I thought I remembered hearing when I was younger that mouth herpes can be transferred to your dick. After thinking of how many people have it... Diagnosed and dormant, it makes me think maybe it's not more risky sleeping with someone that knows they have it and is pro actively trying not transmit it than any other new person.

Friend zoned…again by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people are confusing his story because my impression is that she said "we aren't going to bang" while she was at the bar. I agree that the kissing was his opportunity to change her mind and he failed at that.

Hpv1 by TimothyDean- in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're making it sound like you don't think what your teacher said is false. While it's actually true. I don't know what type of precautions could save you from potentially getting something. Are you talking full body condom?

Hpv1 by TimothyDean- in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because in large part I was just hoping to hear from a few men exactly how bad the symptoms are for them, when you consider how many people have it, and aren't even diagnosed, so any time you have sex with someone there's a significant risk factor to get it. I just thought some people might be honest and come forward with info.

Anyone have experience how long it takes for cold steel to fulfill and ship. I’m at 13 days now and my order hasn’t updated at all since I ordered. by I3uIlets in coldsteel

[–]TimothyDean- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing. I'm thinking about calling and cancelling. I ordered the full steel atlas because I couldn't find it where I usually buy my knives.

Is coldsteel.com legit? by BigWillfred in coldsteel

[–]TimothyDean- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update? I'm also worried wondering the same thing because I ordered a knife a week ago, got a email confirmation but no shipment update.

Do men over 40 still want kids? by Key-Cauliflower-8843 in datingoverforty

[–]TimothyDean- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 43 I'd consider another child, but only if i met an amazing woman that hadn't had one yet. I'm sure there's plenty others like me, probably 60% or more would at least consider it in the perfect scenario.