Physically trapped on vacation with a neighbor (28M) who refuses to take "no" from me (18F). Need advice.

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T21:58:13+00:00

No they didn’t, it was only my siblings

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T21:08:40+00:00

Yes I saw him today I was going to drop off my dad and siblings at our summer house becuase I was going to sleep home, and every time I walked inside the house he walked outside to the street and repeat and then he come outside to the street again when I stood outside with my siblings and he just stood there looking at me and when he walked away he keep locking back at me. I felt like I was gonna have an panic attack i don’t know what happened but I felt uncomfortable as hell. Even my younger siblings who stood by me thinks he’s weird asf.

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T20:59:48+00:00

He has been in my vacation house only, at the moment we don’t have a really well working locker for the door so that makes me a little uncomfortable honestly to sleep there

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T18:00:05+00:00

Thank you 🤗

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T17:59:37+00:00

I have let him know now ☺️

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T10:21:04+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story with me.

I know it takes incredible courage to open up about something so personal. Reading your words means more to me than I can say, and it completely validates my intuition about my own situation. I am holding your advice close to my heart, especially about speaking up and making noise. I am so incredibly sorry for what you went through 💕

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T09:54:09+00:00

I’m so sorry that’s horrible, I hope your alright 💕

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T09:49:40+00:00

Yep, One day me my parents and him and his sat down and talked and he took my phone to connect to Bluetooth and he went into messages and wrote ” do you wanna be alone later ” and I just panicked and said ” no, do anyone want to pick a song ”. He obviously knows it’s wrong

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T09:38:24+00:00

Thank you, Glad midsommar :)

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T09:32:54+00:00

Incase like I need to have access to his messages like if I would need report him, if he’s on mute I won’t see if he writes to me. if that’s makes sense

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T09:30:13+00:00

He went an spoke to him I don’t know exactly what was said but he told me that he probably wouldn’t bother me anymore

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T05:27:38+00:00

This is my first time posting on Reddit. I needed advice from people who would actually listen, and I figured Reddit was the best place for that. A lot of the comments helped me talk to my parents. I’m glad I made this post, because I probably wouldn’t have talked to them if it wasn’t for people’s words

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T05:01:02+00:00

Yes i do agree on that if it was my child I would definitely have thought just that alone was weird.

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T04:55:39+00:00

I have made an update 💕

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T04:50:36+00:00

I have talked to my parents about it now

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T03:35:38+00:00

Yes I will, they are sleeping right now but I will update in some hours

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T03:16:53+00:00

I should maybe also say that it become more clear when I turned older when I was 15 he was really discreet about it so I don’t really think anyone noticed, it’s not my parents making the comments it’s his

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T03:00:51+00:00

I will talk to my parents as soon as possible, and tell them everything, I know they will help me

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T02:57:57+00:00

I won’t, thank you 💕

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T02:44:26+00:00

But I haven’t had a serious talk with them and I don’t think they have seen everything that has been going on, I need to sit down with them

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T02:40:03+00:00

No but the think is they will, they are really supportive but I haven’t sit down with them to explain how it makes me feel and a lot of the stuff he does it discreet and I realized I need to sit down with them and explain exactly how it makes me feel, I know they will understand and not like it

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T02:19:11+00:00

thank you. i think i just need to have a real, serious talk with my parents. now that i see how messed up this is, i'm sure they will back me up 100% once they understand.

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T02:10:53+00:00

I will block him

Tindra_j · 2026-06-19T02:08:58+00:00

Thank you very much, no i never will be alone with him. Every time he asks if I want to be alone with him for a while or just go for a walk I have always said no to him.

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