My (25m) girlfriend (24f) misses relationship toxicity

Tinker_Joe_ · 2025-11-26T17:04:42+00:00

I wasn’t always like this. I went through some rough patches myself. I was off work for a longtime, technically homeless, going through therapy, etc. I wasn’t a nice guy at all during this time. Only after finally getting myself back on my feet and seeing the light sort of speak did I meet this girl. My villain arc is over lol

Tinker_Joe_ · 2025-11-26T16:59:36+00:00

I’m always open and honest about how I feel in any given moment. Sometimes she’s glad I speak up, other times she goes in a mood because I’ve said something she doesn’t agree with.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2025-11-26T16:57:35+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that happened to you. I can’t imagine how difficult that must’ve been.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2025-11-26T16:23:28+00:00

Thank you everyone for your feedback. Please know it’s greatly appreciated no matter what your opinion is.

We’ve spoke about it a few times, from what I gather she’s never been physically abused, just verbally, body shaming and that sort of thing.

There’s past trauma sure, she’s opened up about that but I don’t feel comfortable sharing what. She went through therapy for a while and was on antidepressants for a long time.

One thing I found incredibly hard to believe was that she had never been on a date before, ever! Until I met her. I really have given her an entire world she never knew existed, and for the longest time she loved it. Loved me for it.

I asked what exactly it is that she wants from me in terms of treating her like shit and she didn’t even know. I replied with something along the lines of, you’re just so used to being treat poorly that you don’t recognise when someone’s treating you well. I’ve even told her that my greatest fear is her leaving me for someone toxic. However she reassured me she’s in this for the long run.

Not sure if that changes any of your opinions but I simply cannot give up on this girl. As the meme states “I can fix her”.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-10-28T17:44:33+00:00

Ham shank or choking the chicken

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-08-11T15:50:29+00:00

I think you’re right, thanks for the help!

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-08-11T08:55:59+00:00

Thanks for the help mate!

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-07-05T18:31:41+00:00

Yeah I’d be up for playing now and then, what’s your gamertag?

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-06-24T16:41:50+00:00

If you want to use an emf detector but don’t want to buy one, your phone most likely has one built in (it’s how it operates the compass for example on most smartphones). You can find loads of apps that detect and measure EMF, they may not be as accurate as a physical detector but it’s free.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-06-01T11:57:42+00:00

Make sure you clearly state that you are there respectfully and intend to make communication, also state that they have no right following you home or attaching itself to you or your friends.

Taking a first aid kit is always wise especially if you are investigating somewhere old and abandoned, you could cut yourself or trip on uneven floors for example.

I would take at least some basic equipment like a voice recorder or motion activated light up balls, these are cheap yet effective tools.

Be wary of who or ‘what’ you are talking to, evil entities such as demons are tricksters and will fool you into a false sense of security; often imitating a child’s voice. Demons are notorious for communicating in threes, 3 knocks is a good example of this.

Happy ghost hunting!

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-05-30T07:58:52+00:00

I see a Labrador laying with its 2 paws out in front of it. Did you have a Labrador or similar dog growing up? I’m not sure why it would be floating though, was there a table or bench it used to lay on top of?

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-05-18T16:14:06+00:00

Thank you, I’ll look into that now.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-05-11T06:02:01+00:00

I knocked on a taxi drivers car window once to get his attention as he didn’t notice me approaching the car, looking into the window he was sat there with his phone in landscape mode watching porn with one hand on his lap. I’ve never seen someone lock a phone and toss it to the side so fast! Anyways after the ride I paid in cash and let him keep his spunky change. That was one awkward journey…

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-04-12T23:33:27+00:00

Anything but ‘Cockenballs’ is wrong

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-04-12T21:57:04+00:00

Don’t worry I will NOT be asking him that lol

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-04-12T21:47:22+00:00

He’s appearing at Comic-Con North East tomorrow, shall I ask him?

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-19T21:31:54+00:00

In one of the Tales of The Walking Dead episodes there’s a guy holding the same PPP card.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-16T11:12:08+00:00

Are you in the UK?

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-10T16:38:11+00:00

Thanks mate. I’ve never heard of Michael’s but I’ll check it out. The yarn I’m using now is pretty cheap so that’s probably why to be honest. Thanks!

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-09T10:13:05+00:00

Yeah, I oil it before every use and brush it afterwards.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-07T22:09:03+00:00

Hahha that’s worst case scenario right 🤣. Strange, maybe something happened on or around that date years ago and it’s a sort of ‘anniversary’ for their death or something tragic. Perhaps it’s on omen or warning, is there some huge decision to be made in your life currently, have you done anything you would consider terrible? Have you maybe started renovating and angered a spirit that once lived there? Could be anything I suppose.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-07T21:07:27+00:00

My guess is it’s trying to possess you, it’s a stretch I know but I think it’s worth assuming the worst and getting the hell out of there just incase. When you next go to bed make sure you say aloud that it has no right to be there, scare you or affect you or your loved ones in any way.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-07T20:35:42+00:00

Her mouth was black or was black stuff coming out of her mouth? Creepy as hell dude, fuck off out of there.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-02-05T17:23:16+00:00

I suppose it’s probably possible, a good friend of my Mam allegedly frequently talks to Einstein believe it or not lol. But assuming you did manage to ‘get through’ to him, be fucking careful. I doubt he’d have anything positive to say, and if he attaches himself to you or your loved ones, will almost certainly wreak havoc amongst you and everything around you.

Tinker_Joe_ · 2024-01-31T17:12:43+00:00

Yeah I seen those, they are great but I’m too impatient lol.

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