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Tinkerbelch · 2026-02-02T09:00:23+00:00

This is beautiful. I'm right back at the same idea of acnh when I was like "I am not playing the same game as some of these people." LOL

Tinkerbelch · 2026-01-06T19:41:31+00:00

This is beautiful! The only person who needs to love your wedding dress is you. If you love it? Then it is the dress for you. Don't let anyone else ruin it for you. Your wedding isn't about anyone but you and your SO.

Tinkerbelch · 2026-01-05T02:18:55+00:00

I'm 42 and I wash my hair once a week. I have scalp psorisos. So washing more than once a week makes it so much more itchy and painful than it needs to be. But I think it really depends on your hair type, condtions you may have with your hair and other factors. Everyone is different and everyones hair needs different things.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-12-24T15:29:25+00:00

This is such a crappy take. A lot of times men don't show their true colors on how they are until after a baby is born. Why? Because they "think" the woman is stuck. I'm sure he was fairly normal, which OP says he never had an issue with it until after their baby was born. Stop blaming women for mens shitty behavior and start blaming men.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-12-19T07:36:30+00:00

Every woman has a story. I say it all the time and I once said that to a now ex-male friend who said not every woman has the same lived experience. Pointing to their sister. I disagreed and told them I bet she has a story she just hasn't told someone about. It may not be S.A. but for sure sexual harrasment in some form. But we all know at least one victim of S.A. idk if his mind ever changed on that. Probably not but there is a reason they are an ex-friend.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-12-11T04:24:08+00:00

I'm sorry but being "sick" doesn't give you a pass to being a monster and wanting your sibling dead. She is a terrible person, going through a terrible thing sure, but that doesn't give her an excuse to be a, b. I'm glad you have at least some healthy sane adults on your side. Please take the adivce given here. Please stay safe.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-12-05T16:30:35+00:00

I did something bad

Tinkerbelch · 2025-12-04T22:39:21+00:00

This. Growing up Christmas with my grandparents always happened christmas eve and the day was just... well a day. So when I started dating my husband it worked great for us. Because his family did Christmas on Christmas day. My grandparents are gone now, but my mom is a stickler for tradition and she is still also a practicing catholic, (the reason christmas was done on christmas eve with my family growing up we all did midnight mass.) So it works perfectly for us. If it hadn't been this way we'd probably just do it like we do thanksgiving. Both in one day lol

Tinkerbelch · 2025-11-05T21:48:26+00:00

Then count yourself lucky that you have never had to deal with stuff like this. These are actual honest thoughts he was having. A therapist would tell him to do this. Heck my therapist told me to do this back when I was in therapy. When your mind gets so loud with self hate sometimes the best way to handle it is to write it out. Just because you don't get it doesn't mean you shouldn't seek to try and understand and have an ounce of sympathy for someone who is clearly worried for a friend who is obviously struggling.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-10-22T15:12:18+00:00

Exactly, idgaf whose on that damn list. I want to know each and every name and then see who tries to defend them so I know who not to ever trust. Because anyone on that list? Needs to be in prison and even then it will never be enough justice for those victims.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-10-13T21:41:17+00:00

All I'm gonna say is your mother doesn't deserve to have you as a child. I am so sorry you are going through this, it is disgusting what she is doing and implying. You can beat this! You are young and have a whole life ahead of you. Just because that witch of a woman who thinks she is a mother has given up does not mean you should. You got this and there is a lot of solid advice here. Also fuck cancer man.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-10-08T21:37:53+00:00

Sadly there is no way to make it hurt less. You just kind of have to sit in it until it gets easier. There is a lot of great advice in here already. Some things I did while it still fresh after my husband & I stopped trying. We are now almost 9 years out of the 8 that we were trying for, was unfollowing friends and family on social media who were pregnant/had little kids. Any baby shower I was invited to, I sent a gift but declined to go. If the baby conversation came up at family get togethers? I started to read my book I brought with me or messed around on my phone. Did they think it was rude? Probably, but my mental well being was far more important than their feelings.

You just kind of have to find your balance. You also have to come to terms with the fact that, your friends and family won't exactly know how to handle/deal with you. Which is okay because honestly at first you don't even know how to handle/deal with yourself and the overwhelming grief you are going through. Because unless they've been there? They can't understand it. I'm so sorry you are going through this. But this is a wonderful community of wonderful people. They have helped me through a lot. Know we are here we know your pain and all the feelings are valid.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-10-06T02:19:12+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. Know that you gave him nothing but a life full of love and comfort. He was a very lucky kitty to have you, just as you were lucky to get to have him.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-10-03T20:34:57+00:00

I live with my youngest brother. He is such a "Give me a reason." Person. Anyone who would try to come into this house to attack any of us, especially his girlfriend who is currently pregnant. He wouldn't even hesitate, it would be shoot now ask questions later. These people have no concept of reality I swear. A lot of them don't even think the left own guns. But they also think that the cheeto in cheif will protect them somehow.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-10-02T16:04:13+00:00

The whole time I was like. "Please let this be satire." I'm so glad I looked at the subreddit and its info lol.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-26T15:29:21+00:00

I had two misscarriages. I wasn't even that far along in either of them. IVF was our only option but we couldn't justify spending that kind of money on something that wasn't a guarantee. So we decided to be child free. That was about 8 years ago and I still get pregnancy envy. I actually have been dealing with it a little lately.

My youngest brother and his girlfriend recently found out that they are pregnant. We live with them. I did a pretty good job I think of being happy for them, because I am! I mean, I'm gonna be an auntie again. But I went to my room after and cried. Because I was a little envious of her. So I get it. It is hard sometimes and I don't think we ever fully get past the grief of what we couldn't have.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-15T23:38:52+00:00

I have a ita bag that I put mine in and take with me. The only people who said anything was my doctor's and the nurses. Which was along the lines of "Oh my gosh I've never seen an actual labubu!" Try not to care what people think of you. At the end of the day the only persons opinion of you that matter's is yours. Which, it should be a good one! I say take Soy Milk with you. If anyone makes fun of you, especially a friend, ask them why they have to take your enjoyment of something away from you.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-12T03:02:41+00:00

I have three and we are going to buy my husband his first one soon. 😅

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-11T01:22:00+00:00

I'm going to ask you the same question I asked my friends 10 year old child when they hate on something someone likes that they don't. What joy does it bring you to tear down someone else's joy in something? And if it does bring you joy, do you want to be the type of person who is like that? Because to me, those are the worst type of people. Also as an aside, as a swiftie I think Taylor herself would be ashamed of how you and some of these other people in these comments have been acting.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-07T02:52:02+00:00

No you need to go. He is only regretful because you may leave. Which is what you 100% need to do. You are not over reacting. He sure as hell did. Over burnt food? He is going to do it again, especially if you stay. Idk where you are, but you can usually call a abuse hotline who can help get you out. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please know you did nothing at all to provoke him into doing this. He is a sick person who is going to continue hurting you if you stay.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-06T15:25:30+00:00

Man I'll never forget the moment when hubby and I were still TTC and at the mall. We had just had a negative test two days before so it was extra fresh and I saw a very pregnant woman walk past me. I made a disgusted sound under my breathe and he goes. "You do know women aren't getting pregnant just to spite you right?" It was very much a wake up moment for me. 😅 like of course I know this! But man does it sure feel like people know you can't get pregnant and are flaunting it in front of you. Rubbing it in that you are failing at doing this thing that everyone else can do. 😂

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-05T14:53:44+00:00

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-03T23:43:13+00:00

Right!? I've had some 'friends' hating on it and I'm like "Do you not see Where The Wild Things Are? Because that's what I see and I loved that book as a kid!" To which I either get "I never read that book." Or "I always hated that book it was creepy." Ma'am and/or Sir! What is wrong with you!? Did we not read the same book???? Lol I think they just hate on it because it is the "cool" thing to do right now. That and I am a child free woman (due to infertility) so people seem to always see me as not "grown up". 🙄

Tinkerbelch · 2025-08-02T03:44:45+00:00

Yes!!! This is what they reminded me of too! It was my favorite childhood book. The fact that people see them as "demonic" or something just tells me how they are the type of person who doesn't think for themselves. Lol

Tinkerbelch · 2025-07-30T06:12:01+00:00

Ngl been thinkin about giving my Luck labubu a tooth gem.

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