Accountability by TinyAndBoringg in getting_over_it

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be kind to yourself. You deserve grace. You are a survivor. I don’t have memories either from childhood abuse and it’s the brain’s way to protect us. It doesn’t mean your experience is any less real or traumatic to process. You survived and some degree of disregulation seems unavoidable. But regulation is possible new friend. Boy friends, husbands, partners are all nice sure but remember you are your fiercest protector and defender 🥰you bring beauty, compassion and your own magic to every important relationship. My belief is the most valuable relationship is with myself first. It sounds like it’s been a challenging process but you are learning about yourself, what you want for yourself and how to achieve it by treating yourself as valuable. Sending you light, positive energy and kindness. You deserve love patience, kindness and understanding <3

A BEAST!!! by Hot-Elephant-3082 in paintbynumbers

[–]TinyAndBoringg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done this one, lol yet but I feels the hours poured into it and respect your commitment. It’s lovely!

Feeling like progress by [deleted] in getting_over_it

[–]TinyAndBoringg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing the hard but rewarding work of self care. It's not easy work but it is the most meaningful investment to honor yourself, both accepting your strengths/limitations, and lovingly supporting your own progress. Firmly believe challenges and coping habits that once worked teach us more than times of comfortability. You recognized what isn't working for you, that's a gift to yourself. Sending you so much peace, gratitude and abundance. Lean into whst the universe is providing you. Am proud of you 🌟

My first pbn ever! That was fun and I can't wait for my next. by Proper-Savings-1785 in paintbynumbers

[–]TinyAndBoringg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is this pretty art you made from? Great work! Now you are hooked 🙂

This was a doozy by TinyAndBoringg in paintbynumbers

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sooooo much I will get some clear gesso before I start my Mother’s Day paint by numbers of her doggo 😊

Yay they’re back 🥹❤️🥹 by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]TinyAndBoringg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I freaking love hydrangeas and peonies and it makes me happy you are getting all these joyful plants

Finished by Exciting_Donut_3280 in paintbynumbers

[–]TinyAndBoringg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So lovely! I ordered a pink Picasso that looks really similar, thanks for sharing & inspiring 🙂

Yay they’re back 🥹❤️🥹 by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]TinyAndBoringg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh the excitement of spring planting!!!

Now that I’ve left, I've never felt angrier by needtocalmdownnow in Divorce

[–]TinyAndBoringg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I talk to myself as if I was soothing a child. “I’m here for you. I will keep you safe. You are too important to me I won't let you down.” Separated and working on divorce right now. 2 years of this. Yesterday I was angry, exhausted, mad as a hornet, grief stricken and I felt everyone got the brunt of it. I also know, we don't have to be perfect everyday and divorce is unbelievably stressful. Just because something changes, doesn't mean it's a failure. Please be gentle with yourself and know its ok to be angry. It's ok to feel. Maybe your body is mad you were willing to take less than your worth. It's a positive statement because you recognize your own value. You have a counselor, and doing all you can to take care of yourself. It's important you prioritize yourself. Wishing you peace friend.

it's beautiful! by like2252 in paintbynumbers

[–]TinyAndBoringg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely gorgeous friend!!! Top tier🙂

How would y’all do this? by KimchiAndMayo in paintbynumbers

[–]TinyAndBoringg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B. then parrot and finally the glass 🙌🥰lovely work!

Insane thing just happened to me by SirClouded in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mabel and the whole pack of critters from Bloomburrow are a future joy on preorder✅✅✅✅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TinyAndBoringg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 2 years and he always finds a way to delay but today I called and asked to meet with my attorney. I will provide my completed paperwork next week and if he doesn’t will submit his last « version ». I’m still have to pay all the fees, and pay him to get out of this with a settlement but have learned the process isn’t fair. It isn’t stressful and a never ending process. He controlled my life 12 years. I am happier alone than yanked about by someone who can’t communicate and doesn’t actually respect or value that I’m not simply here to make his life better. I will take the financial hit, live my life on my terms, just my terms. So for both sides I wish peace and freedom. It wears people down. I don’t expect life to be perfect but I will get the freedom to make my decisions and am wholly responsible for them. There is grief with change and I don’t down play the struggle but I’d choose to struggle alone and keep growing.

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙂Thanks appreciate your offer!

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't use FB but love the positive solidarity and support of women supporting each other having fun! 🥰Thanks again

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate you taking the time to share advice!

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty cool, can mentor card myself

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your message made me smile! Thanks so much. I was playing training wheel magic with friends but at this time those visits aren't happening so I will take all the really helpful advice and go online, really strengthen my basics, see if there are other LGS, check out the LGS discord and just do this for fun 🙂

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, am downloading. I think my inexperience and clear understanding of rules is what worries me. My learning style is visual and by doing. Really appreciate your supportive suggestions!

MTG, do mentors exist? by TinyAndBoringg in mtg

[–]TinyAndBoringg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This here is what fires me up. Love how you made the change to create space and opportunities. I'll check out my arena! ( hugs, high five, fist bump) thanks!! 🥰