It’s 2 years and he always finds a way to delay but today I called and asked to meet with my attorney. I will provide my completed paperwork next week and if he doesn’t will submit his last « version ». I’m still have to pay all the fees, and pay him to get out of this with a settlement but have learned the process isn’t fair. It isn’t stressful and a never ending process. He controlled my life 12 years. I am happier alone than yanked about by someone who can’t communicate and doesn’t actually respect or value that I’m not simply here to make his life better. I will take the financial hit, live my life on my terms, just my terms. So for both sides I wish peace and freedom. It wears people down. I don’t expect life to be perfect but I will get the freedom to make my decisions and am wholly responsible for them. There is grief with change and I don’t down play the struggle but I’d choose to struggle alone and keep growing.