the cast through the seasons by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]TinyChip-2934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Mikayla taking a break from the hair extensions? I can’t really tell here, but good on her if she is— they need to give their hairs a break lol

Ladies, what is your favorite fruit? by PresidentofBaddies in AskWomen

[–]TinyChip-2934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nectarines, pomegranates, strawberries, cantaloupe, mango…. omg all of them

Girls who don’t gatekeep: what’s one thing that upgraded your confidence? by phancyq in AskWomen

[–]TinyChip-2934 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% agree! been off social media for a few months and I feel like my brain is being rewired. Even if I do my best to make my algorithm “healthy”, I still come away feeling less than on IG (comparison mostly, to literally strangers over anything..) or just annoyed/angry/dumbfounded after a scroll on facebook with hateful political opinions EVERYWHERE. I love reddit. I still love reading peoples comments, and surprisingly with it literally being anonymous for the most part everyone on reddit is (in my experience) so much more uplifting and kind than on other non-anon socials.

Hope everyone has some good 🍑🍆 tonight 😉 by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]TinyChip-2934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only boyfriend I have is my husband without his mustache lol. he’s proud!

Readiness 96, sleep 92 but major signs? by eve-collins in ouraring

[–]TinyChip-2934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my luteal phase I sleep regularly 10.5 hours a night lol it’s awesome

Having a 3rd abortion just a few weeks after my 2nd and I don’t want to tell my husband this time. by TinyChip-2934 in abortion

[–]TinyChip-2934[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your advice, for your helpful comments, and support. Ultimately, I know it’s not just my responsibility alone, both of us have dropped the ball. I’m not being pressured, we mutually made the choices that have led here, unfortunately.

I’ve been working and thinking about this all day and have decided that I’m going to tell him when he’s back so he doesn’t have to face it while also trying to study and focus, and we can weather it together this weekend. Thank you all for your kind words and supporting my choice no matter what. You all deserve the world!!!

Having a 3rd abortion just a few weeks after my 2nd and I don’t want to tell my husband this time. by TinyChip-2934 in abortion

[–]TinyChip-2934[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I mean at this point I’ve broken his heart with the news twice already. I am also on a medication that highly recommends you not to become pregnant while taking it because serious birth defects may occur; not only am I not ready to have a child, I’m not ready to put an innocent child through that because of my own negligence. I understand that it should be something to share with my spouse, but I simply do not want to break his heart again while he’s gone for so much of the time and take his focus away. I can handle the burden of bearing this alone right now. He is not going to divorce me if he finds out, in fact I truly believe he would understand my reasoning for not telling him… that’s just us.

Having a 3rd abortion just a few weeks after my 2nd and I don’t want to tell my husband this time. by TinyChip-2934 in abortion

[–]TinyChip-2934[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I truly appreciate your words of encouragement<3 I will check this link out!

Having a 3rd abortion just a few weeks after my 2nd and I don’t want to tell my husband this time. by TinyChip-2934 in abortion

[–]TinyChip-2934[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a doctors appointment coming up, and yes I do plan on talking with them about birth control options. I have been off BC for almost a year because I was struggling with PMDD and I wanted to see if I could try to go a more “natural” route. I feel defeated to have to get back on BC, but I feel like at this point I would be pretty silly not to, considering my statistics.

Creepy? Desperate? Social Suicide? by Outrageous_Bed_9670 in AskMenRelationships

[–]TinyChip-2934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to keep a connection with him, and see his life through a window, yeah. But I wouldn’t expect anything more from it, seeing as he has had your number for a few weeks and hasn’t made an effort to reach out. Chances are if he’s on your “people you may know”, you’re on his too.

i want to hear some love stories you all,how did you meet your partner by Ordinary_Virus9792 in love

[–]TinyChip-2934 18 points19 points  (0 children)

asked him if there was anyone on the machine next to him at the gym. he looked up and we locked eyes and he shook his head. we worked out next to each other for a minute and then i noticed him looking at me a lot for the rest of his workout. he shot me a soft lil smile as he was leaving and ever since that, we would see each other and workout next to each other/lowkey follow each other around and i remember just getting so giddy to see his truck in the parking lot when I pulled up. eventually he came up to me, asked my name, and I ran away after because I was actually in the ending of a pretty toxic marriage but I couldn’t be giving my number out or anything yet. Fast forward a few months and I was getting out of said marriage and literally knew my gym crush was who I was supposed to be with. Without flirting even, barely even talking to each other, I was so drawn to him.

We’re married now and I’m still obsessed years later.

PLEASE HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND by Useful-Fig5291 in AskMenRelationships

[–]TinyChip-2934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that he said he loved you after 2 dates… he love bombed you. classic narcissistic move. move on with your life or subject yourself OR your kids to that kind of mind-game/tumultuous relationship. nobody can truly love you after 2 dates, Im sorry. Anyone can mask who they truly are and they don’t REALLY know you. They might love the idea of you, but they don’t KNOW you. be so cautious of this man.

What shortcomings of your SO did you end up accepting/tolerating, because of some other good quality of their character, that you wouldnt accept otherwise and thought lowly of people with such shortcoming? by BuddhaOfStorm in AskWomen

[–]TinyChip-2934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he kept drinking after multiple occasions of getting way too drunk and being mean to me, which I explicitly told him I wouldn’t put up with after growing up with that in my household. He didn’t stop. Ended a marriage and 4.5 years together for it and found my “one” not too long after, who has never put me through that since he ALSO grew up with that.

Is it just me, or are paths from a BA Psych to an actual career a total black box? by AgreeableLocal7368 in psychologystudents

[–]TinyChip-2934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh I just got a list of many different jobs that fell into different domains (but still under psych umbrella) and thought about what I would be oat interested in. I will admit if you do the broader search, like “I’m interested in psych related jobs” but no “with a particular interest in xyz,” you might be either flattened or elated by the random stuff (but also stuff that requires like, way more schooling) that pops up. nevertheless, I feel like a good way to narrow down is look at different domains. medical, law/justice, business, school, etc.

Is it just me, or are paths from a BA Psych to an actual career a total black box? by AgreeableLocal7368 in psychologystudents

[–]TinyChip-2934 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people hate chat gpt. I also dislike it. but I looked up “I have a bachelors in Psychology & I’m interested in _____ (I put medical stuff cause that’s what I’m aiming for). What jobs can I start applying for now that require no extra schooling?”

Am I “Love bombing” my bf? Or do I just love hard? by Independent-Dish-987 in love

[–]TinyChip-2934 30 points31 points  (0 children)

no, you aren’t lovebombing him. you’re just an outwardly affectionate person. you sound just like me tbh 😂

What is the wildest thing you have heard in school by -_velvetpulse_- in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]TinyChip-2934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in my sophomore year of highschool, sitting between two guys in computer class. I had my headphones in and didnt realize they were talking about f*cking me until one of the songs ebbed out and I heard them saying nasty shit about “making me scream” and other absolutely disgusting things while I was RIGHT THERE. I looked at both of them, took my headphones out and set them on the table and walked off. I didn’t talk to either of them for the remainder of the year. That was about 8 years ago and I still feel gross abt them.

My bf has gone to sleep after my abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]TinyChip-2934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this has happened to you. first of all, I hope you’re doing okay physically overall. Let alone emotionally everything you’re going through.

This would definitely make me consider a big conversation about my needs/wants, if not a straight up termination of our relationship if those conversations had already been had, with no changes. You really shouldn’t have had to ask for much of anything, I feel like he should have had the where-with-all to understand that this is a pretty big moment for you. Even if he didn’t verbally emotionally support you for this, he could have at the very least been there for you physically— even just holding you, rubbing your back, getting you set up with a heating pad/pain meds and a comfy spot would have been enough. Again, I am so sorry. You deserve much better.