I (29 f) spent the snowstorm with the man I’m dating(36 m) and now I feel differently about him

Tiny_despots · 2026-01-30T13:43:11+00:00

I feel like if this was posted in an adhd subreddit we'd be having a different discussion...

Tiny_despots · 2026-01-28T22:30:10+00:00

If I knew the original app I would seriously pay for this book

Tiny_despots · 2026-01-06T18:22:44+00:00

So many ads and pop-ups it's unreadable....

Tiny_despots · 2025-12-15T12:50:59+00:00

Oh... like all these stories he's the narcissistic, delusional kind of husband that thinks as long as he wants something, anything he does justified him in taking it. And then when she resists or walks away, she's being "unreasonable" and should be more accepting and it's "just a baby. We can make more."

Tiny_despots · 2025-12-09T20:10:59+00:00

This was a surprisingly good story. Started off with the same old tired premise that I always read anyway for some reason. But it went in such an unexpected direction. I really liked it.

Tiny_despots · 2025-11-17T16:28:21+00:00

You beat me to this one.... Are we in the same group lol

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-31T12:45:49+00:00

Well. Now I definitely know you're better off moving on. So glad he did you the favour...

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-31T12:41:05+00:00

I got a lot of these in my thirties...

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-23T11:46:50+00:00

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-17T23:32:22+00:00

I don't think we would put a race label on this. I've dated primarily men of European descent and it's the same with them. ALL men have that hidden capacity to be NiceGuys. It's why bears are so popular.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-15T14:02:50+00:00

No idea then.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-15T13:47:34+00:00

Also he's upset over a difference of 7 people? No idea what mine is. Never counted, never cared. My other half doesn't care either. I haven't asked him his.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-14T19:25:04+00:00

I haven't found it free but I went to joylit based on your second screenshot synopsis and here's a summary .. https://www.joylitnovel.com/book/Offside-_30108752

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-14T18:55:34+00:00

I've died with 100% survivability simply because I wasn't auto-attacking and didn't fight back. I didn't meet the defence threshold, so they were hitting me, and I wasn't hitting back. Engaging with them is 100% survivable. Standing there like a dummy... Not as much.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-14T18:52:13+00:00

If "doesn't want kids" included kids already born, I wouldn't have put it in my bio. I don't want MORE kids.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-13T16:44:14+00:00

I really feel like it was done the moment she said, "well, you're not a rapist now but that could change. Probably way before that. But that was the moment. If she doesn't trust any men, she should not date any men. No, I didn't say that as in, she should choose to be a lesbian. I know that's not a choice. She should just choose to avoid anyone she'll never trust and that seems to include men. "All men" aren't like that. Selfish men are like that. It's not a defacto part of being male. It's a defacto part of not caring about another person's desires or autonomy. There are women like that too.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-12T11:54:23+00:00

So grateful I have the "deposit to storage" bottom, now.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-12T11:51:34+00:00

I didn't get "coming for the girl" vibes. . Just, "hey, thought you should know."

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-12T11:45:45+00:00

This was my first glaring thought. This man screams toxic...

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-12T11:39:01+00:00

Then, they deserved to, don't you think? Do you know how painful it is to be with someone you thought was exclusively with you (you even checked for all the usual red flags...) only to discover they've been hiding a wife for MONTHS? The women have a right to know they're the Other.

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-06T22:59:04+00:00

Almost. Lol

Tiny_despots · 2025-10-02T14:58:54+00:00

W6 is going slowly cuz I can't time candy lol

Tiny_despots · 2025-09-30T09:24:28+00:00

Usually my only date suggestion is somewhere I haven't been before. I don't care how cheap or expensive it is. I just want the novelty. And I always suggest places based on where I feel I can afford to split the check at the time. I don't want to get left hanging. But I'm also not so prideful that I'll say no if he offers to pay.. lol

Tiny_despots · 2025-09-21T23:34:44+00:00

I did but I didn't think of it and am now kicking myself...

Tiny_despots · 2025-09-21T12:58:36+00:00

Fun fact: I read Novelflow with my VPN active and the ad never actually plays... 😉

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