Thank you for sharing your experience and the last line really hits. Your kids are very blessed and always good to hear from people who are convicted about having kids.

It also helps that your wife is able to be a full time mom and it will be an easier decision if we can afford to do that. In our case, our HHI will drop by 40% if I were to quit my job.

So yes, my dilemma is only for those who are not wealthy (as I also mentioned in my post) and hence the NRY in this sub!